Do all men cheat if given the chance?
Q. Hmm, I'm getting a little cynical-do all men cheat (emotionally/physically) if they get the chance and don't think they'll get caught?? This is the impression I'm getting from DearCupid, from celebrities, from my friends, and I don't like it. I ...
A. 9 March 2012: No, they do not all cheat.
But the vast majority of them (80%+) are, by drive and nature, definitely NOT monogamous, our culture's denial of this very basic and nearly self-evident fact notwithstanding.
That is, most men will at least be sore... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend see me as a respectable girl after I give blowjobs?
Q. one time, a close friend of mine and i were discussing sex. i asked him if he was interested in a blowjob and he said if it were coming from a girl he didn't respect, then yes, he would want a bj but if it was from someone he cared about, then ...
A. 9 March 2012: Definitely very immature / obtuse, not to mention kind of insulting, on the part of your (platonic) friend. In fact I'd consider dumping him just for saying that. At the very least, he certainly doesn't deserve a blowjob from anyone.
Conve... (read in full...)
Boyfriend either doesn't like sex or just doesn't like having it with me
Q. OK this is long! Either my boyfriend doesn't like having sex with me, or he just plain doesn't like sex (I wish I knew which). We've been together nearly three years (I am 30, he is almost 40). Compared to my previous relationships I've alwa...
A. 9 March 2012: Sounds like he's either gay, or quite possibly, asexual. (Yes, such people do exist -- there are quite a lot of them, in fact).
But either way, you deserve (much) better, given the way you write, which expresses a lot of sensitivity and magnanim... (read in full...)
Am I wrong because on our 1st official date I turned down giving oral sex?
Q. Dear Cupid, So i've been seeing this guy but not for that long. We've hung out briefly and last night he took me out on an official date. After dinner we left and went to a park to check out the view and went back to the car. He kept asking if I...
A. 9 March 2012: This one's really easy - it was definitely in poor taste, and very crass for him ask you for that on a first date (and in a semi-public space, no less).
Definitely dump the guy, and ONLY if he isn't a violent creep, maybe consider giving him an e... (read in full...)
Should I just kiss him already?
Q. I’ve been hanging out with one of my guy friends a lot for the last couple of months (I’ve known him since November-ish). We get along really well and I enjoy his company very much. Sometimes we do kind of nutty stuff together – we once had a ...
A. 9 March 2012: You're way past the "foreplay" stage. Just kiss him already.... (read in full...)
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