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First time BJ! I might freak out!

Q.   I am a virgin and i have never gone further than hand jobs with my bf. I really want to give him head but i'm scared that i'll start to and then get grossed out and offend him or something (it ISN'T gross, it's just my first time and i'm nervous)...

A.   4 March 2011: Your man won't mind one bit, believe me. ... (read in full...)

Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!

Q.   There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a ...

A.   3 March 2011: Why do you care so much? You're obviously jealous of her. Why don't you just respect your friends wishes and back the hell off their marriage??? ... (read in full...)

I need opinions, on the letter I'm about to send her

Q.   Hey there Dear Cupid I have a question on Romance, I'm young and naive when it comes to this so bare with me. As of three months ago my ex and I were forced to split up by her parents. We have known each other and been best friends for 7 years now,...

A.   3 March 2011: Screw the letter. Love conquers all. Go after her NOW!... (read in full...)

Should I start the healing process and move on from this LDR which doesn't seem to be working out?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with a guy I met in college for almost 4 years now. We have in a good, stable, loving relationship. I'm an international student, so I had to leave upon my graduation. We're half a world away now. I have plans to go ba...

A.   3 March 2011: I'm in a similar situation with my wife of 9 years. We're apart, I love her so much, but she won't say it back. It's not a good sign from your aspect or mine. I know it hurts. I'm hurting too right now... ... (read in full...)

Is this just his way of telling me we have no future?

Q.   i am in a relationship of six years. my boyfriend introduced me to his family when we dated for about a year. my problem is that si months from him introducing me, he never wanted me to visit his place or his parents. when i ask him he brushes me ...

A.   3 March 2011: Well uh, with the lack of information you've given us, I'm inclined to say that maybe his parent's house smells and he's embarassed about it. Maybe he doesn't like his parents or maybe he doesn't want his aprents to judge you... ... (read in full...)

In a relationship for 5 years but have feelings for someone else, how do I approach this?

Q.   Hi everyone, I've finally decided to ask for help anonymously about my situation as I am completely lost at what to do and perhaps even in how I am thinking. I'm 25year old woman in a serious relationship with another woman who is 2...

A.   3 March 2011: Your girlfriend sounds like Ms's right, the girl abroad sounds like Ms's Rightnow. You have no clue what the outcome of the 'passion' you feel for this other girl will eventually lead to. Also, you're looking outside of your current relationship ... (read in full...)

Is moving back to a town where there is nothing to do a way to keep ourselves out of trouble? Can you really start over?

Q.   Okay so here is the deal. Growing up I lived in a tiny isolated town. It's in the mid-west so it isn't pretty or thriving and is really small with only like 1000 people. Recently my grandmother passed away and my parents own the house that she l...

A.   3 March 2011: I grew up in Las Vegas and had my fair share of troubles; I just never got caught, heh. Like you, I've recently contemplated the idea of moving away from this hellhole to start over with my wife and young child, but I already took the plunge; ... (read in full...)

We're not official, do I have a right to feel like this?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for 3 and a half months... we are exclusive but not official... there are a number of reasons why we can't be official but if circumstances were different we would be... as you can see the status of our relationship is a ...

A.   3 March 2011: I'm pulling the same thing on my wife right now. Our situation is way different, to say the least, but we're living in different countries at the moment. I would love to text her all day long, but I'm lucky to get a 'sweet dreams' text every other ... (read in full...)

I actually hate him but I feel so crazy and pathetic right now. What do I do?

Q.   I just left my boyfriend of six years, living together for five years. We have a beautiful baby girl, who is the most amazing, loving person. I am 28 years old and I am a lawyer and have worked very hard in my life. I met him, fell in love and...

A.   3 March 2011: This may be hard to believe in your current state of mind, but you can and will find someone that you'll eventually fall head over heels for. He hit you, really? You deserve so much better, but only time will show you this... ... (read in full...)

I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me

Q.   Is it fair that I always do oral sex to my husband until he gets to the climax without even asking if I want him to do it to me too or have the real sex either. I don't directly ask him to do it because I feel like he should have known it as a ...

A.   24 February 2011: "I don't directly ask him to do it because I feel like he should have known it as a man." Wrong. We as men get comfortable in relationships after a while and eventually forget about the passion behind sex coupled with the need to please the woma... (read in full...)

I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me

Q.   Is it fair that I always do oral sex to my husband until he gets to the climax without even asking if I want him to do it to me too or have the real sex either. I don't directly ask him to do it because I feel like he should have known it as a ...

A.   24 February 2011: Without a sexual attraction or sexual gratification on both ends, it's not really a relationship, is it? Sexual attraction is just as important as emotional and physical! You NEED to talk to him and tell him that you're unhappy. Think about it, ... (read in full...)

We have grown apart and want different things......should I leave?

Q.   ive been married for almost two years and we have been together 4 years. we have a daughter together he wants more i dont right NOW. IM 22 hes 38. we dont get along anymore and have different wants and needs! we have grew apart! I dont have a job or ...

A.   24 February 2011: The choice is clear, leave..... (read in full...)

My wife cheated on me 2 days ago, would you agree?

Q.   It hurts so much to write this right now. I never imagined being even remotely close to cheated on but from the investigating I've done, the mere thought appears to be the inevitable... I've been with my wife for 9 years. She's 26 and I'm 30. ...

A.   24 February 2011: February 24th. I finally got my wife to call me this past Tuesday evening. She told me that there's no way for her to prove that nothing happened because of the information I have so trying to would be a waste of time. I asked her why she drove ... (read in full...)

My wife cheated on me 2 days ago, would you agree?

Q.   It hurts so much to write this right now. I never imagined being even remotely close to cheated on but from the investigating I've done, the mere thought appears to be the inevitable... I've been with my wife for 9 years. She's 26 and I'm 30. ...

A.   22 February 2011: You have all given me great answeres with different perspectives and I really do appreciate it. She still hasn't contacted me, and I'm starting to get really worried about her. I know she's so scared, but she doesn't have to be. Yes, our marriage ... (read in full...)

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