I'll have to choose between him and my family and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi Agony aunts! So I'v posted about a man i met online previuosly and asked for general advice. it has now been a year since we started a relationship and I am very much in love with him. However, the issue of my family has started to worry ...
A. 23 August 2014: Seriously, if you consider yourself a Muslim, you need to really think about what it means to be a Muslim, what is it about you that makes you declare yourself as a Muslim. It really isn't just a label, identity and a few rules. It is about ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't drink, how do I handle the alcohol issue in his birthday party invitation??
Q. Hey y'all ! So I've been in a LDR with my awesome boyfriend for a year now. He comes to see me often, so he's met my friends. this time, i want to throw a birthday party for him at my apartment...and all *my* friends will be invited obviously since ...
A. 23 August 2014: Why is he objecting to alcohol, yet he is OK with the greater sin of "zina" with you? ... (read in full...)
I escaped my Muslim Arabic country and found freedom, but now I have met a lovely Arabic guy his friends are telling him to stay away from me because I don't fit into normal Muslim beliefs! What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an Arabic female who escaped from my Muslim Arabic country in the look for freedom, I escaped by my self and it was not easy (I got publishing companies asking me to write my story to be published) I escaped when I was 20 years o...
A. 23 August 2014: Sometimes, and I see this with people who go the way too (westernised wide boy to ultra puritan religious) they hate what they come from so much, they lose sight of the positives. Since at this in your life you do not care about deen, Allah, ... (read in full...)
What will my family say about my marrying a non-Muslim guy??
Q. Hello I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and we are both in love and cannot live without each other. I have met my boyfriend's family twice. They live abroad, but he hasn't met mine yet. However i am planning to introduce him to my ...
A. 24 October 2011: If you are happy to marry this non-Muslim, or even are happy to have any pre/extra marital relationship with any man, then it seems that you have been brought up with values that are at odds with Muslim values on marriage, sex, relationships. From ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my wife if she would like to watch porn together to spice up our sex life?
Q. I have been reading this site and a lot of women seem to question why their husbands like to look at porn or even disapprove of it completely. I think I understand that. It makes you feel inadequate and like he's cheating on you. However, d...
A. 15 May 2011: I think porn/glamour presents an image of women to men that inflames passion in an unhealthy way. People don't really understand the inner secrets of human nature, and especially today where the emphasis is so much on the purely physcial aspects of ... (read in full...)
Muslim girl confused about giving oral sex.
Q. i've known my boyfriend for 4years now, recently been going out, we've been together for a year and a half. recently he asked me for oral sex, which i did promise him but only because i was going away on holiday and i didnt want him to cheat. now ...
A. 30 October 2010: Oh dear, yet another one saying they come from a "good" Muslim family worried about one lewd act whilst overlooking the bigger wrong of their situation. Really, having a boyfreind/girlfriend, being intimate outside of marriage and a much bigger ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and my parents are still too strict!
Q. Hi I am 20 years old male and soon im gonna turn 21 and my parents are still to strict with me. If I style my hair then they get disapointed from me and my mom does not talk to me and my father yells at me till I get rid of the style.... im not allo...
A. 30 October 2010: As a parent, I can reassure you that what most parents to see in tehir children as they grow are signs that they are capable, dependable, trsutworthy, responsbile. It cannot be denied that Pakistani/Muslim parents in the UK have high expectatiojns ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I tell my Muslim family that I have a Christian boyfriend who I want to marry and start a family with!
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend over a year and we been living together for a year. my family and i are muslims however my boyfriend is christain. me and my boyfriend are deeply in love and we wana get married and have babies. how can i tell ...
A. 30 October 2010: The chances are, if you see no wrong personally with what you are doing then your family have failed to bring you up as a good Muslim, and therefore cannot really complain about what yor choice. You have been living with a man to whom you are not ... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my Muslim Parents, but I also love my boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. hi, my parents are strict muslims and are against the idea of having a boyfriend. ive had a boyfriend for 4 years now, and i love him a lot. i cant break up with him. My dad cares about me and has done a lot for me so he doesnt force me like ...
A. 30 October 2010: Speaking as a father, all this talk all being afraid of loosing a daughter is nonsesne - it's what girls from "good" families say when going astray to make themselves feel better about what they are doing. A father who cares for his family, his ... (read in full...)
Devastated after my mother's death. Help me..
Q. My muother has just passed away and i feel i cant cope any more i just dont know what to do my life has been ripped apart i was so so close to her i dont know what to do any advise please!...
A. 30 October 2010: I have witnessed a number of instances in my close family where a parent has seen their child die, ranging from young couples seeing their baby die to an elderly woman seeing her vibrant adult family man son die. Without wishing ti diminish your ... (read in full...)
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