I think this girl is trying to horn in on my guy
Q. the guy i have been dating for the last few months and myself nearly broke up on sunday. first of all, i think i am reading into it too much when i am afraid that because he was willing to let it go that he really doesn't care- but he was very ...
A. 13 February 2009: well first of all she's married- she was engaged when they first had stuff happen and as far as that's concerned he said that there are no feelings there. he calls it a "big mistake" and he says he hates to relive it. granted he knows that his ... (read in full...)
Odd choices
Q. I have been using certain sociel networking sites sinse christmas, trying to meet new people and networking for similar interests, im a goodlooking guy, im a bodybuilder, i dont talk about anything sexual and i dont rub my assets in peoples faces. ...
A. 12 February 2009: the simplest way to put it? because people can act hardcore behind the keyboard. people like that will congregate where ever they want to and that happens to be online most of the time. sadly, this world is full of people who are self-obsessed ... (read in full...)
Is it just bad luck or is there a reason why I attract cheating men?
Q. I recently discovered that someone I was seeing is in a three year relationship. Of course I have stopped seeing him but it does concern me that this is the fourth time this has happened to me and I'm only 19. I'm not easy and wait a long time bef...
A. 9 January 2009: There is probably no reason for it specifically. Unfortunately it's hard to tell if someone is cheating just by talking to them unless you ask specifically. it's nothing on you, trust me. Honestly, it's good that no matter what you don't question... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he won't be 'in love' with me. Is 4 months long enough to tell?
Q. so i've been dating a new guy since my last relationship ended horribly. he's wonderful- older than me by a few years but he cares for me and shows it very often. we've been together for about 4 months- i have issues with trust and he has been ...
A. 31 December 2008: he is moving for work, technically. he's military. but he had brought up the prospect before. with his work situation he'll be allowed to live anywhere and was talking about staying around here with me and then when the option arose he mentioned it ... (read in full...)
He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?
Q. I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...
A. 31 December 2008: it's a little silly to be hurt by this but you have feelings for him. don't worry too much.
if the friend was female then i can understand a bit more worry but in the long run let him know how you feel about it.
why just let it sit?... (read in full...)
What do I do with these feelings?
Q. I've been married for 4.5 years and have a daughter that is almost a year old. My marriage has often been very rocky. We separated once and reconciled then became pregnant. Only recently has my husband truly started to turn into a man worth being ...
A. 31 December 2008: don't leave mr. right for mr.right-now or mr.might-be-right.
are you seriously considering putting your child through the trauma that could be caused by this? seriously consider your actions. if you don't trust your husband is sincere then ther... (read in full...)
Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!
Q. My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after ...
A. 31 December 2008: i'll agree with everyone else here, you had no right to be snooping around. come clean about this with him. i will say though that i believe he is more wrong in this situation, no matter if you were snooping or not.
you're probably wonderin... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he won't be 'in love' with me. Is 4 months long enough to tell?
Q. so i've been dating a new guy since my last relationship ended horribly. he's wonderful- older than me by a few years but he cares for me and shows it very often. we've been together for about 4 months- i have issues with trust and he has been ...
A. 31 December 2008: he's technically moving for work. we wouldn't be moving until april or soon thereafter to be honest. it's not like he's moving next week and wants me to come with right now. he had already brought up the prospect of moving months ago, though. at ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he won't be 'in love' with me. Is 4 months long enough to tell?
Q. so i've been dating a new guy since my last relationship ended horribly. he's wonderful- older than me by a few years but he cares for me and shows it very often. we've been together for about 4 months- i have issues with trust and he has been ...
A. 31 December 2008: i also do want to mention that when we first got together, for at least the first month we were always about equal when it came to getting in contact with each other and now i constantly feel like i'm the one making contact with him. i do suffer ... (read in full...)
I am having an affair with someone who is in a relationship!
Q. I have been having an affair with a guy from school. he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for about a year. we have not had sex, including oral sex, but we have been messing around and spending nights together. this has been going on ...
A. 31 October 2008: 1. you're leading him on
2. who says you won't end up with feelings for him?
3. you are not a bad person- but you are behaving like one simply by asking what to do.
you should know the right thing to do in this situation. put yourself ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to deal with my friend? She's getting very annoying!
Q. I have a girl best friend and a guy best friend. I hang out with the girl all the time but this past schoolyear I've gotten really close to my guy best friend again and now she gets really jealous and really mad about me talking to him. like I hung ...
A. 31 October 2008: i'm going to be a bit rude with you but: you're not her only friend. get that through your head first and foremost. but you probably are one of her closer friends, maybe someone she feels closer to than anyone else. so, when you are giving you... (read in full...)
I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was ...
A. 31 October 2008: i would say that seeing as how you've both been together for so long asking for a little give would not be a bad thing. worst he can do is refuse, but trust issues are trust issues. even if you say you trust him simply by worrying about this means ... (read in full...)
Should I give up finally on him? Heartbreak!
Q. I have feelings for a guy who I met when he was doing duty assignment here in MI a year ago. He never knew I liked him when I met him although he was very friendly, the flirty type. I fell in love with him but couldn't told him or showed him b/c he ...
A. 31 October 2008: there are two ways you can look at this.
you need to tell him how you feel- because he may not get it.
and also, even if he did feel something, who says he would say anything? he might be thinking the same thing you are- that you just can't sa... (read in full...)
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