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writes:I have a girl best friend and a guy best friend. I hang out with the girl all the time but this past schoolyear I've gotten really close to my guy best friend again and now she gets really jealous and really mad about me talking to him. like I hung out with him today and she called and she heard him in the background and hung up with me. I'm her only best friend and I have her, the guy, and another girl friend and she always gets jealous and always bitches to me and I can't deal with it anymore. at school we both talk to everyone and she can ditch me to talk to them and its whatever to me cuz I got other people to talk to, but once I talk to any of my other friends she gets mad at me and says I'm being a bad friend. and idk what to say to her cuz I think its too rude to be like sorry I'm your only friend.how am I suppose to deal with her? she's getting really annoying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe both talk to a lot of people at school but as for afterschool I'm the only person she hangs out with other than her parents.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 October 2008):
Find her some other friends to hang out with.
She has to have more than one person to speak to in the world. She has to deal with the fact that you are allowed to speak to other people.
Ask her why she is being so strange.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, tanpopo +, writes (31 October 2008):
 i'm going to be a bit rude with you but:you're not her only friend.get that through your head first and foremost.but you probably are one of her closer friends, maybe someone she feels closer to than anyone else. so, when you are giving your time to someone other than her, of course she'll get jealous. however, it just means that you need to tell her you think she's getting a little too jealous. you can tell you have other friends, and that she does too, and that you're not going to just spend time with one person when she doesn't feel required to do that either. does that make sense?
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