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writes:I recently discovered that someone I was seeing is in a three year relationship. Of course I have stopped seeing him but it does concern me that this is the fourth time this has happened to me and I'm only 19. I'm not easy and wait a long time before having sex when I'm in a relationship. Is it just bad luck or is there a reason why I attract cheating men? Reply to this Question
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reader, tanpopo  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 There is probably no reason for it specifically. Unfortunately it's hard to tell if someone is cheating just by talking to them unless you ask specifically. it's nothing on you, trust me.Honestly, it's good that no matter what you don't question it until it happens. keep it that way.I make a point of being a little detached from people even if they're flirting with me because i've had this problem too. (in fact, three guys I've been with cheated on me).Think about if there are any similarities between the three guys, how they act or how they talk. It may just be that they show interest, that is attraction in and of itself. Whether or not it's morality is right is a different story.
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