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I lied to my fiancee about why my phone was off all weekend but he's not convinced. What can I do now?

Q.   During the weekend i spent time with my ex boyfriend and i had switched of my phone. my fiancee tried calling but could not get through.When he asked why my phone was off i told him i had a lot on my mind and just did not feel like talking to him, ...

A.   11 August 2009: Why were you spending time with an ex boyfriend? Is the golden question. With or without your phone off at the time. If I were in his shoes and my partner couldn't talk to me and chose to spend time with an 'ex', it would break my heart. And you ... (read in full...)

I want to get close to him but I'm afraid of catching something!

Q.   ok i have this really gig problem i am with a guy that is alot older than me and i like him so much but im so scared of getting close to him and have any kind of sexually contact with him because im scared of catching something and afraid that ...

A.   11 August 2009: ok i have this really gig problem i am with a guy that is alot older than me and i like him so much but im so scared of getting close to him and have any kind of sexually contact with him because im scared of catching something and afraid that he is ... (read in full...)

So confused, sick and tired of my relationship!

Q.   I'm really starting to get sick and tired of my relationship. I have been involved with this guy for three yrs. I love him dearly , but I have a trust issue with him and I am trying hard to get over the fact that he has lied to me in the past. When ...

A.   31 July 2009: Sounds like you have made the decision already to be blunt. If you can't talk to him then you need to tell him how important it is. Maybe start by saying that you don't want him to get annoyed or angry but you have to speak to him properly... (read in full...)

Is being a 'Nice Guy' a bad thing?

Q.   Girls keep calling me a nice guy. Is this a bad thing? Something definitely isn't working because I've never had a real relationship. I never really get close with girls, or talk to them like close friends. I'm "friends" with a lot of girls, but ...

A.   30 July 2009: No it's not a bad thing. There's a stereo type that women like 'bad boys'. That's like saying men don't like theatre - it's a generalisation and completely unfounded. Some women may find they tend to fancy the 'bad boy', but if that's the case ... (read in full...)

Does she like me or something?

Q.   I go to the gym 3 days a week, I see 2 girls who go on the same days. I've noticed one who is attractive and our eyes have met a few times over the weeks, I check her out not quite a bit and sometimes catch her looking at me but looks away as soon ...

A.   30 July 2009: Sounds like the classic signs to me, but then not everyone is the same. What's she like with other men in the gym? From what you've said, if I were to place a bet I'd definitely go for saying she likes you. Particularly as she appears to make a p... (read in full...)

2 years without my ex and I still miss the relationship we had. Do I just need more time?

Q.   Even after 2 years without my ex, I'm struggling to forget my feelings for her. I'm desperate to move on, and after all this time, I suppose I'm still trying to believe I will find someone better. My ex was very attractive, and for the two years I ...

A.   30 July 2009: As someone that had a 'first love' I can relate to you. I suppose it doesn't totally go away until someone else comes along and with maturity as you discover more about yourself as you grow older. First love tends to be very pure and sweet,... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's neighbor...

Q.   I have been in a long distance relation for a few years now. We are both looking into avenues that will finally put us in the same city. No luck so far. Anyway, my question is about a re-occuring issue we've had. Let me start by saying that my ...

A.   30 July 2009: I think you are right in your belief that there are limits to what a partner in a relationship may do, but to a degree it should be mutual. Although it bothered and continues to bother you that she sees no issue with going swimming with a male fri... (read in full...)

Ladies: Could she possibly want more?

Q.   I got some great answers from some guys on this but was hoping for a female point of view :) Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked th...

A.   30 July 2009: I know you asked for a females point of view but I can relate to this so thought I'd throw in my two cents. First of all you sound like a top fellow with your morals and sure women wish there were more guys like you around. :o) The tricky th... (read in full...)

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