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Do couples share their passwords with each other or is it a trust issue to deal with?

Q.   I have a question about trust. Im having an issue with my bf keeping his password from me. I know its because of trust and im trying to work thru it but with all thats happend its kinda hard to.my question is how many of you share your passwords ...

A.   19 March 2011: Asking for your boyfriend's email is like him asking for the key to your diary. ... (read in full...)

How can I let her down gently? She was a virgin. I was drunk. Her family could be a problem

Q.   hello. i slept with my best mates sister the other day. im 20 shes 18 it was just a drunken mistake at a party. but she thinks were together how can let her down gently and without her family finding out. also make thing worse she was a virgin. plz ...

A.   19 March 2011: These other replies are pretty harsh considering they don't even know you. My advice to you is to go out on a few low key dates whee you have a chance to talk. When you talk, talk about anything except for sex. If it doesn't work out, both you and ... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever heard of a solution to help fix my embarassing issue?

Q.   I have begun dating a really great guy and I don't want to screw things up. Problem is I know I have bad vaginal odor, I know I've probably lost guys because of this in the past and every guy I've been with has never given me oral. I've seen my ...

A.   19 March 2011: Don't worry about it! One of my ex-girlfriends had a really strong odor. It bothered her a lot, but I grew to really like it. It has been scientifically proven that the arousal in men goes up 10 fold when a woman's vaginal smell is present. It's a ... (read in full...)

Need another perspective on this relationship

Q.   Okay, I've been in a relationship with a girl from another country for the past 4 years. We met in college, but sadly most of the relationship has been long distance. Last year I tried working in her country but it didn't work out, she still lived ...

A.   16 August 2010: Thanks for the advice DB! I think you're right that I may be idealizing her a little bit. But it's mostly memories from all the great things we did together. I don't want to make her sound like a total bitch for not wanting to teach me her language. ... (read in full...)

Should I break it off with my LDR?

Q.   Should I break up with my LDR? He's stopped communicating with me cause he's been really depressed and mad about something and he won't tell me. We've been dating for three weeks and other than this it is perfect. Though he even told me his prob...

A.   16 August 2010: LDRs are tough no matter what. Because he's a guy, I'm guessing that it's part sexual. His friends could be coaxing him to break it off too even though he doesn't feel that he really wants to. I suggest staying with the relationship if you feel ... (read in full...)

Help in attracting a boyfriend?

Q.   So I want to know why I can't get or how to get a bf my age or at least close to my age? I'm 16 in my third year of high school and i've only had one bf in school at least! I have dated one 22yr old one 24yr old and a 14yr old! There has been guys ...

A.   16 August 2010: Guys are primarily attracted by looks. It's in our genes. I would highly suggest buying a style magazine and putting together some outfits and makeup that you find stylish. The other thing you can do if you haven't done it already is join a school ... (read in full...)

She gave him a hand job but said it wasn't cheating

Q.   I have been married for eight years now, recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was stay...

A.   16 August 2010: Dude. You are a mega pushover if you don't kick that guy out and put your wife in her place. It's your relationship, why are you letting this douche bag in on it without a complaint?... (read in full...)

20 minutes of sex was all he wanted?

Q.   Opinions needed. I am a little disturbed the last week because of what happened. Just a little about myself before i tell you the story. I got married very young, it was a short lived marriage that ended up w/a child who i had to bring up basical...

A.   16 August 2010: Have you tried texting him? People in their twenties need constant stimulation. It could work, but you have to make him want something from you. I suggest re-creating some sexual tension via text message. I can almost guarantee that he will come ... (read in full...)

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