I betrayed the trust of my boyfriend in the bedroom. How can I find his forgiveness?
Q. My boyfriend and I of 2 years have been experimenting in the bedroom over the past few months. We started with him, at my request, being more and more aggressive with me, i.e., holding me down. Then I asked for him to tie me up, which after a lot of ...
A. 10 June 2011: I've been in a similar position except it was me who wanted to stop and my fiance kept going. I begged him to stop and was crying because it hurt so much but he just didn't. Afterwards he apologized to me and said that he felt like he couldn't stop ... (read in full...)
Why do so many women hate porn?
Q. Maybe I'm opening a can of worms here, but why are so many woman so vehemently against porn? What is there about it that makes it so evil? I read so many questions from women who are disgusted by their partner's porn use. Some consider it as b...
A. 4 April 2011: The problem with porn is that it turns a normal loving compassionate selfless person into a selfish greedy pig who only cares to satisfy his or her needs. Believe it or not porn is extremely addicting and many people never get over their addic... (read in full...)
Tried to get my GF to "change" for me, but I'm still not attracted to her and there's no sexual tension
Q. I've been with my GF for 3 years now, but our relationship is missing sexual tension. I'll try to be as honest as possible. You will judge my behavior as selfish, and I will not object, but know that when I'm changing my GF to my tastes, I'm trying ...
A. 4 April 2011: I think you're totally right in saying that the porn desensitized you. Porn has very damaging effects on the human mind and you should give it up completely and never go back. I suspect that even if you broke up with your gf and got a new girl who ... (read in full...)
When I leave the house boyfriend watches porn. Is he a weirdo?
Q. everytime i leave the house my b/f of 5 years watches porn and chats, he never admits it, and when i mention it he gets really mad and it's a major fight and he says i'm crazy that it's not true. when i get home and go on the computer he sometimes ...
A. 4 April 2011: I'm sorry that you are going through this. Your bf has a porn addiction and he needs help. To anyone who says that porn is ok and that its normal to watch I'll tell you straight out that this is a lie. Porn generates a selfishness in a person where ... (read in full...)
16 weeks pregnant and stressing over my future.
Q. I'm having a couple of dilemmas. I just broke up with the father of my baby for some pretty good reasons: -still using (I'm a former user, cannot have those people in my life) -still getting drunk (I hate drinkers) -lying to me -lying ...
A. 4 April 2011: I'm sorry that you are going through all this but let me assure you that you are a strong beautiful woman and that the stress you are going through will pass. Congrats on getting rid of that loser first of all. Anyone who threatens to kill his own ... (read in full...)
Every time we fight he breaks up with me
Q. He breaks up with me every time we fight. today was the third time, so 3 fights in 8 months not bad but last time we talked it through and i was left feeling like i talked him back into being with me. This time I'm resolved to let him go...3 s...
A. 4 April 2011: I'm sorry that you're going through this but I can try to give you some idea of what might be happening. I'm a girl but I've been known to do this in the past too...with my fiance! Everytime we fight I tell him that I'm done and I want to walk away. ... (read in full...)
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