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Why do attractive women have problems finding a man?

Q.   So ... I have a good question for everyone. I was going through this question over and over with my good friends, that have the same problem .... Why do actractive women have problems finding a man? I don't think that me or my girlfriends ...

A.   11 June 2007: Hello, are you looking in the wrong places? It sounds like you are wanting something more serious than the other half is willing to give, it takes men longer to grow up, so outwardly they may look the deal but it takes 30+ years for a man to mature ... (read in full...)

Feel scared of loving... any help?

Q.   Can anyone tell me why do I feel so scared of loving another person? Is it because I have been hurt before? How should I go about solving this problem?...

A.   11 June 2007: if you've been hurt then it's natural to be scared of loving again, to use an analogy... if you had been attacked by a dog then chances are you'd be scared of dogs - it doesn't mean all dogs are out to get you but that fear is there and it's ... (read in full...)

How do I bring up the subject of my fiery girlfriend's smelly punani with her?

Q.   My girlfriend really smells-It really especially puts me off if I have to go down on her and she really smells awful. Sometimes the smell is so bad that I can smell it when she simply takes off her thong before even going down there. I think maybe ...

A.   11 June 2007: Welcome, i recently had this delicate issue to address, the thing is... there is no gift wrapped way to say it, some good advice i had is to share a bath or shower with her then only have oral sex after that, if she doesn't put the 2 together ie ... (read in full...)

He says to me "I wish you were dead"... !

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 yrs calls me names like schizo, stupid, and sometimes when he really tempers up he says " I wish you were dead". He had agression and anger problems, and it flares up on me because I dont stand up for myself and I keep it all ...

A.   11 June 2007: you are dating a bully, if you don't leave him you have a lifetime full of this ahead of you. He treats you as his whipping boy, it makes him feel big and powerful and i doubt he will want to get rid of that. The irony is that he is a weak scared ... (read in full...)

I'm engaged but a relationship with my step brother, trouble mes..any views?

Q.   OK this is what happened to me. When I was 15 years old, my first time was with my brother from my dad's side (my parents never got married and we are from different moms). He took my virginity by playing a game with me ( he didnt take advantage ...

A.   11 June 2007: Sounds like you got love and lust mixed up here, he's your brother and it's right to love him, he's also a male and it's normal to have sex, but both together is a big problem, no matter how 'good' it feels, playing a game to take your virginity is ... (read in full...)

She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??

Q.   Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grat...

A.   11 June 2007: Are you sure 'she' is who 'she' says she is? it's very open to abuse, be very careful if you ever arrange a meeting, you MUST meet in a public place, don't bend on this issue, whatever the excuse may be, best wishes... (read in full...)

Am I stuck in that cycle of only 'wanting females that I can't have'...help?

Q.   This is a little complicated so I'll give a bit of background information before I get into the problem. Since the time when I was 18 I've had about about 4 relationships lasting anywhere from 1 month to 1 year. Three out of those 4 ended after I ...

A.   11 June 2007: There's definately a pattern here and it has nothing to do with who you're with, it sounds like it's happening at a subconscious level, my advice would be to pay the money and see a counsellor that specialises in the sex/relationship sphere, if you ... (read in full...)

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