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*essIzFit
writes: Heya guys,I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ?Is it possible ?I'll be very grateful for any replies,Cheers LouiseXxXxXxXxXx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
I met my partner through a wap (mobile internet) chat room and we talked for months through there and over the phone. So I knew what he sounded like just not what he looked like. I wouldn't of said I loved him at that point but there was derfinetly an attraction there.
Just be careful if there are any plans to meet up. Take a friend with you until you are sure he is who he says he is and meet in a busy place.
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reader, love-him +, writes (21 June 2007):
Hia babii, if your not ready to tell them about your sexuality just say shes a friend of a friend.. make sure you do trust her as well.. but yea theres no reasn to say your sexuality or anythin.. mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, bubbloo24 +, writes (11 June 2007):
Hey no problem! that's why we're here!
I suggest you tell your parents that she's coming to stay over or they will go nuts! But in answer to your question I think you should say to your parents that she's a pen friend maybe?
I'm sorry I don't personally know about distances in England, I live in the Isle of Man ya see!
But I think that you should tell your parents soon about yor sexuality or they may find out in a really bad way. For Eg, seein you in some sort of action with a girl... Believe me, I tried to tell my parents that my bf was just a mate and they caught me kissing him so I think you should tell them sooner rather than later because you would rather explain yourself than be caught and then have to explain...
Wish ya all the best
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reader, JessIzFit +, writes (11 June 2007):
JessIzFit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeya everybody,Man you guys are such great help.Things are looking up big time. She is coming down on my birthday, how awesum, and staying round mine. I kinda need help on telling my parents though. They don't know anything about her. They think i am str8 and don't know i have been chatting to her. It is a bit strange if she just comes down from devon and just sleeps round mine. What should I say ?And I live in West sussex so how far away is Devon ?Cheers guys,Luv ya tons for helping me outLouiseXxXxXxXxXxP.s I love this site !It's amazing
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (11 June 2007):
i personally believe you can love someone without seeing them. If it is like this all the shallowness of looks has no impact. Like cuttieicy said love is very misterious!
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reader, love-him +, writes (11 June 2007):
Hia babii its possible yea !! but babe like wat bubbloo said.. maybe its the person you know online that u love, she could be different in person.. have you seen her on webcam or picture? but yea babii in answer to ur question it is possible to be in love with someone over the net x x x mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, bubbloo24 +, writes (11 June 2007):
It may be that you love the person you think she is, try not to get too wound into it. It is possible, but remember that you are only seein the outside picture.
Take care and have fun!
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reader, JessIzFit +, writes (11 June 2007):
JessIzFit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeya agen guys,
I have been chatting to her and we have dicieded to meet up and see eachother soon. I told her about me worrying if our "relationship" would work out and she seemed fine about it. Thank you for your reply cuttieicy,
You showed me that you can love any1 not just the people who you see everyday,
Cheers
Louise
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reader, sparky2107 +, writes (11 June 2007):
Are you sure 'she' is who 'she' says she is? it's very open to abuse, be very careful if you ever arrange a meeting, you MUST meet in a public place, don't bend on this issue, whatever the excuse may be, best wishes
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reader, anonimous.in.love +, writes (11 June 2007):
It is possible!!! My fiance and I met "Online" {actually was a friend of him who introduced us} but anyways we kept in contact by AIM and phone calls... happily after 2 years, we are engaged and we are planning our wedding for next year.
If you are persistence, you'll do it!
Good luck
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reader, cuttieicy +, writes (11 June 2007):
Yea it is possible love moves in mysterious ways
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