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Health problems, no intimacy or sex, a man who needs spcae.....this relationship is falling apart but I don't want to lose him! Help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. When we met it was wonderful. He was so passionate and loving and giving he held me like I was someone special. When he kissed me I felt like a school girl and was on cloud nine. About 6 ...

A.   17 April 2011: He has mentioned not deserving. the lack of intamacy is a problem for me because I also suffer from depression and sometimes think undeserving myself. I get in a funk and think he's not attracted to me anymore. In a couple of weeks his ... (read in full...)

Health problems, no intimacy or sex, a man who needs spcae.....this relationship is falling apart but I don't want to lose him! Help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. When we met it was wonderful. He was so passionate and loving and giving he held me like I was someone special. When he kissed me I felt like a school girl and was on cloud nine. About 6 ...

A.   16 April 2011: Thank you Eddie85, He has talked to a psycologist, psychiatrist, and his doctor. He doesnt have trouble getting it up because he takes care of himself occasionally. I have told him I am feeling neglected. He is nearly 50 and I am 42 in my prime and ... (read in full...)

Is he afraid of a relationship or does he just not like me? Whats with all the mixed signals??

Q.   So I have had this guy friend, Alex, for a while and we never reall talked much at all until about a month ago. (we are both 16 by the way) He started texting me everyday for like a week and a half and then we kind of hung out. I just went with him ...

A.   14 April 2011: Stop playing games tell him how you feel. Get him to admit his feelings good or bad. I have lived a long time and have learned life is too short be open, honest and upfront always.... (read in full...)

Advice on dieting and losing weight?

Q.   Hey, Well im 14 and im quite fat. ive had some serious issues with wieght and my looks in the past i have been bullied because of them and alot of the time ive been made to feel like im the one who just doesnt fit in. ive develope...

A.   14 April 2011: Dear dear child, your weight may be an issue and if you don't want it to be fix it now. As you get older it will be a real battle. Even if you don't love who you are and you will be loved. Don't tear yourself down. Look in the mirror and tell ... (read in full...)

He is verbally abusive and very controlling, why??

Q.   hi, im heather i jus turned 17 on monday. and ive been off and on with this guy who has jus turned 21 a few days before me since christmas. theres a few things that are really bothering me 7 i would jus likwe some insight on why hes treating me ...

A.   14 April 2011: Heather I was 18 when I married my husband who was so sweet. After we were married the verbal abuse bagan. He tore me down called me a moron, he cheated on me numerous times. I didn't have friends. He even tried to keep me from my mom. I was strong ... (read in full...)

My 12 year cousin may be abusing her brother, what can I do, I am 14??

Q.   Please help this scenario isnt just wierd but im so conserned. well i have a cousin who is 12 years old ill call her Kim (not her real name.) My auntie got with her dad about 3 years ago and they are now married and she had a son with him who is now ...

A.   14 April 2011: I understand your feelings and there is only one thing to do. You need to call Child Protective Services 800-242-3338 toll free. This is a California one but they can direct you to the right place. I know how hard it is because I took my own son to ... (read in full...)

How can I fix our sexual situation?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. In the beginning sex was almost nightly. Then his roomate put restrictions on how much I could be there. That stressed him out and he felt as if he was being controlled. Sex began to dwindle ...

A.   8 June 2009: Let me clarify some things. I August He and I did move into our own place. Also we are not having sex it has been 3 weeks. I have a high drive I do take care of business myself but it is not gratifying it only aleives some pressure. I do tell him ... (read in full...)

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