Do I stay and hope it works out?
Q. I am 4 months pregnant, and have been with my boyfriend/fiance for almost a year now. We get into these horrible arguments and will call me some really hurtful names, names that he knows kills me inside. I tell him how I feel and how depressed I am ...
A. 26 September 2010: All relationships, especially marriage, require a lot of work from both parties involved. Try sitting down and talking to him. Keep the conversation neutral, try not to cry and definitely don't get aggressive. Tell him what you need and ask him what ... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 8 September 2010: You guys have helped us out and given me encouragement and understanding that to be honest I did not expect. It is surprising to me how many people accept and at least somewhat understand what I have, because from what I can tell it is not anywhere ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like this about teachers?
Q. Ok, so when i was in year 8 i had this thing for my p.e teacher, yes she was a woman. I dont think it was a crush i just looked up to her, because she was nice and caring. I never told anyone and it wasn't too bad and it soon faded away. But in year ...
A. 8 September 2010: You are young and confused. Hormones are going crazy in your body right now. Stick it out, don't act on them. Even if you manage to get what you think you want you will just end up pregnant or your teacher thrown in jail. Nothing good can come of ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid i'll start messing around behind his back again! should I walk away from our marriage?
Q. Help....so confused iv been with my husband 24 years married 19 years two beautiful grow up children, over the past 10 years iv felt neglected unwanted unloved,i felt so low lack of confidence i started having affairs,i hate myself and feel discusse...
A. 8 September 2010: Never tell him you cheated on him. The only reason to ever do this, husband or wife, is to make yourself feel better, to come clean and hope for forgiveness. It will only break his heart. You messed up, let it eat you up inside. If you truly want to ... (read in full...)
Years go by.
Q. long time ago when I was in the Navy I came home on leave and started a short relationship with a really good girl. We had a romantic relationship and then I went back to my ship. I didnt write or anything I dont think and just left it at that. ...
A. 8 September 2010: It sounds like she is how my wife of 8 years was. It sounds like she is scared of another bad relationship and being hurt again. You have 2 options that I know of, the second one worked for me after the first failed. People tend to work off of raw ... (read in full...)
Moderate Love
Q. It is inevitable to state that a vast majority of teenagers like me and other youthful individuals have this rather weird desire to indulge in relationships. But there lies an extremely crucial factor we tend to ignore,which remains a shame. We all ...
A. 8 September 2010: Wanting to be in a relationship is not a weird desire. There is no such thing as "moderate love". Lizzie is correct. Either you love somebody or you don't. There is no middle ground. Lust is not love, you may have one without the other. Hearts get ... (read in full...)
To Change Or Not To Change... That is the Question?!
Q. On so many occasions I have had friends, relatives and total strangers come to me with the same problem... "I think my partner is trying to change me" or "Maybe i need to change". The answer to this is simple!! No, You shouldn't need to change. ...
A. 8 September 2010: Everybody changes, constantly. A relationship will not last without change. Children change you, Love changes you, Life changes you. Your likes and dislikes change, as will your partners. As a relationship grows it changes. Growth by definition is ... (read in full...)
Argument with boyfirend about marraige plans. Why was he so rude?
Q. Sorry this post is long.plz help and thanks in advance? i am in a comitted ldr relationship..i am 17 and my bf is 18 and we really love each other and we have just completed one year and two months. lately i m still not sure that whether he reall...
A. 8 September 2010: If you don't want to fight then give in. You can do the sneaky thing and agree now and try to rope him into what you want later. This is probably not going to work, but will at least keep you from fighting right now about something that does not ... (read in full...)
Cheated on him with his best friend! Help!
Q. I made thee biggest mistake of my life! I've never had a real relationship up intell this point and I love him with all my heart! I cheated on the only guy I've every really cared about, with his best friend! I know that sounds soo bad! I dont know ...
A. 8 September 2010: To be completely honest with you, from my experience in the navy with so many guys i know whos wives/girlfriends cheat on them while on deployment, it will be more of a pain for both you and him than it's worth for either of you. Ive known women ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore?
Q. Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more? I am 19 years old and he's 34 years old.I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and he is an amazing person. He would come to my house everynight after work. however, like a w...
A. 8 September 2010: Warning:This will be blunt.
He is either with someone else already or has somebody in mind. He is gone, don't bother with him anymore. Find somebody else and if he tries to come back, don't let him, he will only leave again.
Either that or hi... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 8 September 2010: This post is going to be a bit shorter than the last wall of text because I am just going to list the Master's responsibilities as they pertain to to me and my wife. First and Foremost: You have responsibility to not take advantage of wha... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 8 September 2010: Well, the way media and everybody assumes this relationship is; the way the media portrays any woman who lets a man have all of the power, or even some, is one of the main reasons for this fear. Another would be that there are alot of men that would ... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 6 September 2010: The problem has been solved. She is completely happy now. I did much research on this subject and she is now completely mine. By mine I mean she is my slave and I am her master and she is happier than she ever has been. The need for punishment she ... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 2 September 2010: Thanks to Yos I was able to take things to the next level, with less pain. The guide he sent me was amazing and pinned my wife dead on as to the type of person she is and what she really wants. After reading that guide everything about her made a ... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 2 September 2010: Ok, we have done a lot of talking about this and I believe we have gotten to the root of the whole house cleaning problem. Long story short, she feels overwhelmed and does not see the point of cleaning up when 15 minutes later the place is a ... (read in full...)
My wife likes to be completely dominated, and while I enjoy this there are a few things worrying me about this.....
Q. the back story... After 8 years of marriage my wife has suddenly discovered that she likes to be completely and utterly dominated. She has always been that way to a point however now she wants to take it to a whole other level. She likes it when I h...
A. 2 September 2010: Katie Thank you for your very well thought out post. You may be on to something with the psychological issues but my wife has had all things pertaining to sex beat into her head as taboo due to her parents and finds herself unable to discuss most ... (read in full...)
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