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Do I get this massage from my teacher or not?

Q.   Hey need some advice, my teacher has recently passed his masseuse course. And he gave out these 50% off vouchers to work mates. I was helping out in his class as I often do and I don’t know if it was in absent mindedness or not, but he gave me one. ...

A.   9 September 2010: Yep I agree..Your 15 sorry you dont need that and neither does he... (read in full...)

Should I just give up on her and be lonely?

Q.   I'm in love with a girl in college. We're both in our freshmen years and same class. Anyway, I was trying to come closer her but it looks like she can't see me as anything other than a possible friend... Either way, this is not the main thing,...

A.   9 September 2010: Hi well for one the statement should I just give up on her and remain lonely has to be examined to some extent. Who said you have to be lonely? You have the option to date others also. This is how it is in loving relationships. We win some and lose... (read in full...)

Years go by.

Q.   long time ago when I was in the Navy I came home on leave and started a short relationship with a really good girl. We had a romantic relationship and then I went back to my ship. I didnt write or anything I dont think and just left it at that. ...

A.   9 September 2010: Id be very careful my friend. She has already made it known that she wants to see where the other relationship is going and she definitely has issues with the fact that she claims her judgment was affected by the drinking. If I where you Id continue ... (read in full...)

I caught my mother cheating on my father, she also lies on my father, I love her as she is my mom, but I have hateful feelings towards her, how can I change this?

Q.   I have had a real big problem with my mother ever since i caught her cheating on my father that was when i was twelve and now im 18. The thing is she will lie to any one that will listen. She says my dad used to beat her. He would never ever hurt a ...

A.   9 September 2010: Yeah although this post is an old post. I had this happen to me at the same age 12 and I have never forgiven her for it nor have I ever respected her for it. She is 70 years old and I still cannot stand her for it. It wont go away. I walked in on ... (read in full...)

She cheated and I gave her a 2nd chance. But how do I get these vision of her and this other guy having sex...out of my head?

Q.   Ive been with a this girl for 3 years i feel she is my soulmate. a few months ago she cheated on me with another guy 10 years older than her after having a sexual realtionship and even giving him oral about 10 times she said she relized what she ...

A.   21 November 2006: Forget it. She has truamatized you forever. Do you really ever think youll get that trust back. I don't think so. make her pay for her cheating and find someone else. The only way she will ever learn is if she loses what she was to dumb to realize ... (read in full...)

We have both been burnt before and I love him so much so why won't he say it back?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together going on 7 months. I am 31 and he is 37. He was married for 13 years and had two children. His wife was unfaithful numerous times and then was in another serious relationship for 7 years she was unfaithful. I ...

A.   21 November 2006: If you think he feels pressured when hes responding to the text messages what do you think hes feeling when you keep questioning him. It sounds to me like you are happy. I say stop asking him this. he has good reason not to be so trusting. I am sure ... (read in full...)

I'm back with my ex but i'm falling for his friend!

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend 2 and a half years, 6 months ago we split up and got back together after a bit, then very quickly moved in together, thinkin we were for keeps, but now i'm finding myself attracted to his friend, Majorly. i think he likes ...

A.   21 November 2006: You should have the decency to avoid any contact with his friend. It is not nice and would be very nasty and wrong of you if you were to ty dating him or getting closer to him. Ask yourself would you like it if this were done to you. If your ... (read in full...)

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