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Real 40 Year-Old Virgin here, about to be the 41 Year-Old Virgin, who hopes to learn more about love, change my ways and have a meaningful relationship with intimacy.

Ladies: Is it right that I be treated like I have the plague for being a socially inept, shy and awkward 42 year old virgin?

Q.   Hi, I am a socially awkward, socially shy, 42-year-old virgin and am wondering how ladies across the spectrum would view such a situation? I can learn but should I be treated like I have the plague? ...

A.   24 January 2013: Now a recently 43 year-old virgin. Happy birthday me. ... (read in full...)

Ladies: Is it right that I be treated like I have the plague for being a socially inept, shy and awkward 42 year old virgin?

Q.   Hi, I am a socially awkward, socially shy, 42-year-old virgin and am wondering how ladies across the spectrum would view such a situation? I can learn but should I be treated like I have the plague? ...

A.   1 January 2013:  Well I hope 2013 is a better year. ... (read in full...)

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

Q.   Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...

A.   14 June 2012: You are probably right but I believe, when I fall down, I can get back up again. To make things clear some believe I have Aspergers, which means I don't know inherently what to do in social situations. That's it, everyone says, "When the time ... (read in full...)

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

Q.   Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...

A.   13 June 2012: Hey, I get what you are saying and it is not like I am going around saying, "Sex, sex, sex," on the first date but there ARE expectations and I still believe that I have a legitimate concern that I wouldn't be able to find any woman willing to ... (read in full...)

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

Q.   Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...

A.   12 June 2012:  Natasia, that was one of my concerns when they say, "Don't tell her". I know that is going to come back to bite me. Sorry but all these open minded women people are talking about, I don't know where they are at. ... (read in full...)

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

Q.   Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...

A.   20 May 2012: It's an 'in case of question'. I didn't have any woman in mind at the moment. ... (read in full...)

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

Q.   Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...

A.   20 May 2012: Well my worry is that even if I don't tell her, my lack of experience will make me look like a clumsy, awkward teen just trying out in the bedroom. How would a woman dating a man my age be ok with that? How do I go about defending my situation? ... (read in full...)

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

Q.   Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...

A.   17 May 2012:  Wow, some replies supportive, some rather mean. However, I am still perplexed on how to present the situation to any future woman I hook up with, without her freaking out. Are there any lines anyone might suggest that I approach her with? ... (read in full...)

What do you think of older adult virgins?

Q.   I have to admit I am a little over 40 and still an adult virgin. I am a little naive and socially awkward guy but I believe that being a virgin for so long, that I probably have shot myself in the foot, figuratively dating wise with any future ...

A.   13 February 2012:  The reason I have not dated is social anxiety, I get over stimulated at the slightest stimuli. I also don't have the natural aggressiveness that most men have, even though I am attracted to women. I feel that it is held against me for being diff... (read in full...)

I am the Real 40 Year-Old Virgin

Q.   I am a 41 year-old virgin, suffering from social anxiety and isolation disorders and I feel like less of a man and human being because of my total lack of intimacy. How can one regain their sense of self dignity and live a more fulfilling life?...

A.   4 August 2011:  The pep talks were nice and I can reassure myself that I am a man and such but there are some underlining issues as well that I should have included in the original question. By my age of 41, women will expect the guy to have some sexual expe... (read in full...)

I'm a 40 year old virgin!!

Q.   I think I may have blown it, so to speak. I am dealing with and trying to conquer social anxiety and other social challenges. Though through these challenges, I have remained a virgin and I am 40! I am worried that when I do start a relation...

A.   1 January 2011:  Thanks for the responses, this gives me something to weigh when a future relationship happens. ... (read in full...)

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