I cheated on my boyfriend and told him, when I suggested splitting up he cried and begged me to stay, but the thing is I am much more attracted to the other guy than to my boyfriend
Q. Guys, I need help, I think I'm going mad. I've been in this relationship now for around 9 years. We love each other, but many a time during the first few years I slipped and cheated on my excellent boyfriend. I told him and we managed to work ...
A. 7 August 2013: If you know its an infatuation, why would you risk 9 years of love love for an infatuation that may not last as nearly as long? Infatuation is NOT neither is attraction... Both do not last long. I think you are cheating your boyfriend out of... (read in full...)
Cheated on my boyfriend last night and feel so guilty! Should I tell him?
Q. I went out last night and got really drunk. A guy grabbed me and started kissing me and feeling me up and without thinking I started kissing him back. Then he said he would help to get me home safely but he got out the taxi too and we ended up ...
A. 7 August 2013: I am not trying to scold you or make you feel bad anymore than you already do. Don't take this post in offense.
You really weren't going to tell him?! Seriously, that is a low blow. I dare say he deserves a to be with someone who is honest &... (read in full...)
He's tried to do the right thing but doesn't want her to be hurt more than necessary
Q. 4 years ago when I was 18 I met this guy when we started working together, he was 26 at the time. Our job requires us to work away from home; so we spent quite a lot of time together and became close straight away even though he was in a ...
A. 2 August 2013: He is telling you in his actions that he doesn't care about you in that way anymore. He went back to his girlfriend and got her pregnant, even though having a child doesn't keep the family together, he choose to stay. After that, you were just ... (read in full...)
I ended the relationship because she wasn't ready to have sex, now I feel that I was an idiot.
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago. The reason for it was that she was a virgin and did not feel ready for sex. At first I did not think this was a problem but after four months I was starting to get frustrated, although I did not show ...
A. 2 August 2013: Yeah, that was pretty shallow. In a females mind, moving forward mean her letting you in emotionally & trusting you. Take it as a lesson learned. If you meet another girl that's a virgin and you have feelings for her, you can choose to be patient & ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have a crush on my 20-year-old karate sensei?
Q. I'm 15 and I go to a karate club in my town 2 days a week with a Sensei who is now,quite literally my best friend. I am the sort of person who doesnt really have friends apart from a few and I trust people a lot once I get to know them. Anyway...
A. 28 July 2013: Its okay to like him and think he's cute. Many young girls fan over new, young teachers and older boys. Its the appeal & the fun they bring into your space. However, I should caution and be honest with you. He is older than you and while 5 years is ... (read in full...)
Why is my mother mean, judgmental and disrespectful towards me??
Q. I apologize for the long post! This is not a post about me bashing my mother, I would never do that. It is also not meant to be disrespectful. I do love her and respect her and I’m sure she loves me to a degree. My mother and I will prob...
A. 28 July 2013: To 1st Female anonymous reader(July 28, 2013), yes that was me with the question you wrote in response to. Thanks for trying to piece together the info so you could get an understanding :)... (read in full...)
Why is my mother mean, judgmental and disrespectful towards me??
Q. I apologize for the long post! This is not a post about me bashing my mother, I would never do that. It is also not meant to be disrespectful. I do love her and respect her and I’m sure she loves me to a degree. My mother and I will prob...
A. 28 July 2013: My mom's upbringing wasn't the best either. My Nana wasn't the "mother figure" at all. My mom raised herself. I didn't really know my nana until I was 12. Even then, we weren't really close because my mom kept her distance from her as well. She ... (read in full...)
How do people cope with being plain looking?
Q. Has anyone else ever had this? At 21 I was really good looking, then at 23 I noticed my face changing, not aging like wrinkles just started to look like another family member (one I didn't want to look like) I was still fairly good looking the...
A. 28 July 2013: Your post made me laugh in a good way! Anyway, sometimes our features mature as we get older, as its been stated by these aunt's and uncles. Its a gradual change that everyone goes through. At 26, you are not going to look the same as you did at say ... (read in full...)
I only want to date men, so why am I becoming addicted to lesbian porn?
Q. I have this problem I am 100% straight I know this because I date only guys and I am attracted to only guys, yeah everyone dreams of a model body and I am rather insecure sometimes. But my issue is I am worth lesbian porn quite alot recently and ...
A. 28 July 2013: I would say it's normal, just something out of curiosity. As other answers stated, most porn is directed towards men and therefore it is unrealistic, hard and its a playground for then men to show their dominance so to speak. It doesn't mean you are ... (read in full...)
I don't like sex, people think thats a bad thing
Q. Hello, I am an 18 year old female and I dont like the thought of sex, at all. I think its repulsive and gross. I am still a virgin and perfectly okay with it. I dont see how its can be enjoyable or pleasurable for anyone. I have not been ...
A. 26 July 2011: So Very Confused:
Thanks for replying. As far as the whole falling love thing goes, I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed or anything. I work alot & that doesnt leave time for a social life, and Im okay with that. I go to school & work... (read in full...)
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