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Communication in relationships

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18 March 2008: I have been reading and have replied to some of the problems about relationships and most of them seem mostly to be a problem with communication. Talking to your loved one is the most important thing to make a relationship work, if you're not honest ...

What are signs that someone is gay?

Q.   out of curiosity what are signs that people are gay?? e.g taking shirt off with crossed hands and over the head. any more?? ...

A.   11 April 2008: There is no sure sign to see if someone is gay unless they know themselves. It's not something that you can tell straight away. I've known really butch men that are gay and on the other had I've known the campest men to be straight. but as for how ... (read in full...)

I often feel upset, anxious, jealous, confused. uncomfortable and pressured in my relationship with my bf..is this fixable?

Q.   I dont feel happy in my relationship. I often feel upset, anxious, jealous, confused. uncomfortable and pressured. I am finding it hard to concentrate on my university studies. I dont want to get up in the morning or go to work. I am also havin...

A.   18 March 2008: Hello, I was in the same situation a few years back, it's not nice I know but I've said it befroe and I'll say it again the key to a good relationship is good communication. Tell him how you feel and how bad your first experience was. You sound as i... (read in full...)

I can't understand why I want to cheat on my fiance...any ideas?

Q.   Hi i am new to this my self and my other half have been together for about four years we are madly in love with one another and my small girl even calls him dad, we are dur to be married in October, and it may not sound like it but i am besotte...

A.   18 March 2008: I was recently married too, in face I was only 19 when I married, before the wedding I was desperate for something new I early called the whole thing off but I soon realised that I loved him... don't worry I'm sure it's just pre-wedding jitters, ... (read in full...)

I think she is worth driving 12 hours to see, but she doesn't believe me.

Q.   I'm 17 and my girlfriend (16) has moved interstate. I've just gotten my provisional license. The only time I can see her at the moment is during her school holidays when she returns to my town. That means that there is about a 3 month gap between ...

A.   18 March 2008: Hello, You're going to have to take it slow. I know what it feels like to have low self esteem, trust me it isn't nice. You've got to make her feel wanted and beautiful without going over the top. Take it easy, perhaps throw in a surprise visit ever... (read in full...)

I feel more intensely by oral or fingering, than actual sex! Normal?

Q.   I have a few things i've been wondering for a while and that... When me and my Boyfriend have sex, i don't really feel a lot, and we've tried other ways but i still don't feel that much, i always thought it would be this great feeling, but i f...

A.   18 March 2008: Don't worry. It is perfectly normal. It is easier for a man to climax than it is a woman. My advice to you is this, plenty of foreplay and teasing. There is such a thing as the female orgasm it's just harder to achieve. The key is for him to hold ... (read in full...)

My periods are delayed again and it's confusing. How could it affect conceiving?

Q.   I would like to get pregnant and have been trying for a nearly a year this May.I already have a daughter of 6 years. This is the second time my periods have been 4 days late and on the 4th day they start and are very painfull. My preiods were always ...

A.   18 March 2008: Hello, if I were you I woudl go to the doctors, I have had a similar problenm before. They will take some blood and test your hormone levels. I'm not a doctor so I can't say if it will affect your firtillity or not but your GP will be able to tell ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex. How do I stop this?

Q.   hi my name is michele and i am 15 years old. well i have been with my boyfrined for 7 months and he is rushing me into things that i dont want to do. how can i stop this from happening. thanks michele P.s please help...

A.   18 March 2008: Dear Michelle. Being so young I would not suggest giving in to him. You must tell him that you are not ready, if he has any feelings for you he will understand. Sex is not something that you should just rush into and I'm sure you know that. You ... (read in full...)

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