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He cheated throughout our relationship, what do I do?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year, i guess u could say a bit longer than that but we spent a few months getting to know each other 1st. Through out the course of the year, i suspected he was up to no good, he called me ...

A.   27 June 2012: Ive been in a similar situation before and i never ever want to see anyone have to go through it! And how you said that you thought youd walk as soon as you ffoound out but you cant:( i felt that way too. So your not alone. But what i did was make ... (read in full...)

Afraid that sex too soon will undermine the chance of the relationship lasting

Q.   I am a gay male and have just started seeing another guy. We are both in our early 20s. How long should we wait to have sex to increase chances of it lasting into something long term? I don't want to go into full blown sex straight away, bu...

A.   25 June 2012: You could wait until you guys say i love you and do other things to show your interest. Thats what i did with my boyfriend and it has lasted. Good luck with whatever you choose though!... (read in full...)

Why does my ex look at me like he's looking into my soul?

Q.   Everytime i come across my ex, if he see's me and i see him he looks deep into my eyes and holds it without blinking and it feels like he is looking into my soul, it s so strange, he even does it if he is with his girlfriend aswell, what does it ...

A.   24 June 2012: It sounds like he feels resentment from something you did. Did you break up with him? That could be it. He might also be jealous he doesnt have you anymore. But either way as long as he keeps to himself it doesnt sound like something you couldnt be ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is super depressed and I don't know what to do...

Q.   I'll try to summarize the situation the best I can because it's pretty complicated but here goes. I've known my girlfriend since we were in 5th grade. We've always had a crush on each other and we finally started dating our senior year of high sch...

A.   24 June 2012: I feel that she does need a lot of security now. She needs to know you will be there for her. I also think some type of counseling would help greatly. It would be like someone to talk to who only listens and tha helps a lot. As for your choice w... (read in full...)

I want to have sex but it hurt when we tried and now I'm afraid to try again

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years now and we've never had sex. It was only mentioned by him about 9 months into the relationship just suggesting it but I was only 16 and I said I wasn't ready. This January we tried it and he ...

A.   24 June 2012: Well when i had sex for the first time it hurt me too. But once he got it in the pain faded in pleasure. Also the more you do it the less it will hurt in the end(: So i believe to let him on top and tell him to take it slow for your sake. That ... (read in full...)

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