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I've always wanted to be a marine but my girlfriend says she'll dump me if I sign up

Q.   so i've decided to stay with my current gf and just wait. love is more important to me than sex. i do have some what of another problem though. i kinda do and kinda dont want to join the army (marines) but my gf said she would dump me if i did. i'v...

A.   3 August 2007: Is your gf for real!? thats so mean! this sounds like something u really want and ur gf should respect that and support u not dump u! u shouldnt let a woman come between u and your dreams. i say go for it,if this is what u really want then do it! ... (read in full...)

Sometimes he hurts me when he gives me oral sex

Q.   My boyfriend sucks too hard while performing oral sex...Sometimes i gets really painful and I am not able to reach an orgasm. I dont want to emberrass him and complain...What should I do???...

A.   2 August 2007: u need to tell him when he is down there what u like. guys love it when u tell them wat u like. its a good thing if he knows that way he knows your loving it Good luck xxxx... (read in full...)

We are under so much stress! How can we keep from falling apart?

Q.   I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years and we have two children together. It's been extremely hard for us financially the past couple monthes and the stress just keeps building up. What can we do to keep us from falling apart?...

A.   2 August 2007: hi there, Please dont let money get between you two talk to each other heaps about how your both feeling and work things thru.Every couple has money problems at one time you just need get thru it with out damaging your relationship. hope u work it ... (read in full...)

There are 2 sides to my girlfriend and I don't like one of them

Q.   Dear readers, I have currently split up with my fionce and we are just mates now. We work in the same work place as each other and mainly joke around and laugh around with each other. She wants to get back with me but i think she has a split ...

A.   2 August 2007: Hi well i think you need to figure out "is this really the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with"? you say she has a split personality nice one minute then nasty the next,i personally couldnt be with someone like that.Not knowing what side ... (read in full...)

We tried to have sex, but it just did not work!

Q.   well i am a bit stuffed atm lol, me and my girlfriend (both near 16) have bin going out 2months now and it just feels so right. we recently tried sex after a couple of drinks but it just did not work. i can easily fit my finger in but only one at a ...

A.   29 July 2007: i think she feels its hurting because she just isnt ready yet. i think you both should sit down and talk to each other about maybe waiting until ur both physicly and emontionly ready! Im sure u want her 1st time to be amazing so just wait a little, ... (read in full...)

How can I stop having sex with my brother? I know it's wrong and I know it has to stop, I just don't know how!

Q.   My parents went away for the weekend and my brother and I threw a party. After a wild night of drinking and everyone had left we made an attempt at cleaning up. We started messing about throwing stuff and toy fighting until he held me down and ...

A.   29 July 2007: i think what you are doing is WRONG! you must stop now! You should not be having sex with ur brother and your brother should no better. Both of you need to need to stop doing this its sooooooooooooo wrong!!!!!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is going through a divorce and is sometimes moody with me

Q.   My boyfriend of two months is pending divorce from his wife. He is sometimes attentive and loving, sometimes moody and distant. I have done everything I can to show how I feel for him. Is this a lost cause or should I be more patient?...

A.   29 July 2007: Hi, i think that you should just be patient and give him loads of support,he shouldnt be taking it out on u though because thats not fair. i think that u need to sit him down and talk to him about how your feeling,he may not relise that he is being ... (read in full...)

I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies...

Q.   I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies. My friend Adam is straight to the best of my knowledge, as well. Anyways, we ended up taking E together. First, we ended up making out. By the end of the night, we were naked, in bed, and ...

A.   27 July 2007: hi lance, i think you really should talk to your friend about it he maybe feeling the same way you do.If he decides to keep on exploring with you thats great! if not you can still have a beautiful friendship together. i really hope you get what ur ... (read in full...)

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