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Questions about cumming...

Q.   how much does a guy usually cum? what will make him cum more? how many times can he cum while messing around? how long does oral sex take so that he cums? (confused)...

A.   26 January 2009: Stayc is right about the volume, and about waiting, however, if you stimulate him for longer, that can also increase the volume. As for how many times a guy can cum and how long it takes, it's different for each guy, and it's also dependent on the ... (read in full...)

Gain back trust (NOT after cheating)

Q.   My girlfriend is terminally ill (cancer). She kept the information from everyone, including work, her family, other friends. She told me that she wants no one (including me) to interfere with her choices about medication, doctors and the like. I...

A.   26 January 2009: My father's oldest sister died of cancer in 2002. No one other than her husband and daughter knew about it. Finally, her husband broke with her wishes, and started calling up family members. By this time, she had just a few days left to live and ... (read in full...)

Footie Thug But I Love Him

Q.   I've met and fallen in love with the man of my dreams. We started in September last year and we are besotted with each other. He's 15 years older than me - I'm 26 - but it doesn't matter. We just click. However, there is one snag. He comes ...

A.   26 January 2009: It sounds as if both of you need to cut down on your alcohol consumption to have any shot at your relationship surviving without at least one of you ending up in jail, or, in his case, in jail again.... (read in full...)

Does she need space?

Q.   She needs space.? For the past few month's the missus has been convincing her self that I am having a fling. I AM NOT, and tried reassuring her as best I could. It got to the stage where she'd phone me at working asking if i were comming home at ...

A.   26 January 2009: Dave, you don't sound ready to give up yet, so don't. I'd suggest marriage counseling. Seriously. If nothing is going on, then you need to have an outlet such as that to get to the bottom of this. Having a counselor available to mediate things would ... (read in full...)

Fireman blues...

Q.   I went out with this man and he has now started shifts as a fireman for the first time. Working 2 days shifts 9am till 6pm and then 2 night shifts 6pm till 9am and then 4 days off. Everything was great until started working these shifts, he even ...

A.   26 January 2009: Well, if he just started his job as a firefighter recently, he probably just needs some time to get used to the schedule. Give it a month or two. If he's still not interested in continuing the relationship after that, then you should probably move ... (read in full...)

Is it right to believe that he still has feelings for his ex?

Q.   A little over a year ago, I started a relationship with this guy who seemed too perfect for words. His last relationship before me ended about 4 months before we had started ours due to the fact that she had kissed another guy. At first, our ...

A.   26 January 2009: He's obviously not ready to let go of her yet, and it wasn't fair to you. He probably cares about you, but it's not going to work out until he can sort through his feelings for her. Having nude photos of said ex on his cell phone shows that he is ... (read in full...)

Wondering how to last longer

Q.   So my girlfriend and I have had sex twice, but the first time she was in a lot of pain (she was a virgin) and I lost my erection about 20 minutes into it because I was moving slower for her and if I went to far into her she would tell me to stop. ...

A.   26 January 2009: I wholeheartedly agree with satindesire. The first few times that I had sex, I had no clue what I was doing beyond the obvious. You said that you've had another partner before your current girlfriend, so my suggestion is to think about the ... (read in full...)

How to pull back..?

Q.   I am a late bloomer so to speak, and 2 days ago I had my first real date. I was so nervous I thought I would die! I know, funny for my age. Nothing happened, not even a kiss (I have problem with intimacy), but I had fun. Anyhow, we'll be going on ...

A.   26 January 2009: If you get to the point where you've gone out on several dates with him, then there's probably some chemistry, but you're just on date #2, so you have a bit of time. If, in the end, you don't want to see him anymore, tell him so. Don't be vague and ... (read in full...)

Amazing sex suggestions anyone?

Q.   Ok, so I want to hook up with this guy really badly. I'll be honest, I'm just looking for sex. However, I want to really please him and have it be amazingggg. Any suggestions? ...

A.   26 January 2009: Your level of experience is a big factor here. If your goal is to please your partner, my suggestion is first to do some general research on sexual techniques, then when you two are ready, ask him what he wants to do, then do it. Make sure not to ... (read in full...)

Oral sex question

Q.   Hi I really need help on this. I am not very experienced and I just gave oral sex for the first time, he begged me for it. I dont know if I was doing a good job and only did it for about a couple minutes before he came. I asked him how it was and he ...

A.   26 January 2009: Well, my questions for you are, what did you do while he was ejaculating? Did you take the semen in your mouth, and if yes, what did you do while he was doing so? Did you just let his penis sit there while it was happening, or did you continue to ... (read in full...)

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