I have a hard time letting him go because I fear losing him forever
Q. My problem is that i have a hard time letting go. I have been with my boyfriend for five years and for the last year or so things have been missing (especially intimacy). I love him and he is wonderful but I think I need to end things for a while, ...
A. 20 August 2007: i have the same exact problem, and i also wish someone had an answer for me. people say that i should get out of my comfort zone, but after being with someone so long its very hard to do, ive tried to leave my man but i get so lonely and miss him so ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get pregnant???
Q. why cant i get pregnant!! me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for nearly 7 months and it just isnt happening it is cos im only 15 or is it just cos i cant have children. i really want one. me and my boyfriend have been together...
A. 13 August 2007: omigoodness! since you are in another country im not sure how expensive things are there, but here in the u.s. it would be impossible to even rent on both of your salaries! my boyfriend makes over $10.00 an hour, 40 hrs a week, and i make 8.00 ... (read in full...)
How do birth control pills work?
Q. How do birth control pills work? And after how long can I start having sex without a condom after starting the pill? ...
A. 13 August 2007: the pill works by preventing your eggs to attach to the lining of the uterus when the egg is fertilized. you need to be on the pill for a full month to be guaranteed pregnancy prevention. hope this helps, and there should be an instruction booklet ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex, but i'm scared.
Q. ok i'm 13 and me and my bf who is 14 have been going out for 3 in a half months i love him with all my heart but he wants to have sex in La in 2 weeks i want to but im scared i dont want to get pregnant what do i do HELP!!!!! plez ...
A. 13 August 2007: i am 20 now, and i also did it the first time at 13. i was unsure about doing it too, but the guy i was with wanted to and i did it. I REGRET THAT EVERY DAY! right now you probably think that he's the one for you and you love him more than anyone ... (read in full...)
I have not come on yet, whats the problem?
Q. I was on the pill for about 2 months and it made me bleed for 2 weeks and then not for 2 weeks . . . so I quit taking them about 8 weeks ago . . .and still no period. 2 weeks ago, I took a pregnancy test and it was negative! Whats the problem?...
A. 13 August 2007: when you first start taking the pill it can make your cycle very irregular. maybe you should check with your doctor.... (read in full...)
How do i know what love is?
Q. im 14 years old and ive been going out with my 15 year old boyfriend for 6 months now i think i love him but how do i know what love is and am i too young for love x?x ...
A. 13 August 2007: If you believe you can tell him anything, i mean anything, without being ashamed or embarrased, you love him. and as others wrote, you are never too young for love, but remember that as people grow into adults they change, you probably won't be the ... (read in full...)
What do i do if he tries it on?
Q. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tonight im going to my boyfriends and were going to sleep outside. Were going to get physical...but my period started. Im nervous on what i should do. Would it be better to wear a tampon or pad? what do i tell him if he tries to ...
A. 10 August 2007: well...you could go get that product called "instead", it's a cup that goes over your cervix to catch all the blood. i would tell him, but depending on him he may not want to when you're bleeding. good luck.... (read in full...)
I keep feeling as though i need the toilet.
Q. Since last week.. when my boyfriend first fingered me. it feels completely weird in that area.like i really need the toilet.But if i go i don't.i don't understand why..is this normal?...
A. 10 August 2007: you most likely have a urinary tract infection. if anything dirty gets into your urinary tract, you get an infection. it hurts and if you don't get the antibiotics and painkillers from your doctor soon it will hurt incredibly bad. until you get to ... (read in full...)
Why do some people have to be so rude on DearCupid?
Q. i have a question. why do some people have to be so rude on here. whats the point in asking for help when your just going to get ridiculed half the time and not taken seriously. i believe if they need help, help the person if your just going to ...
A. 8 August 2007: TWO DIFFERENT STANDPOINTS: some people who advise dont advise for good reasons, and some people who ask don't ask for good reasons. being able to advise based on the askers questions requires a lot more than tact. i agree with the others who have ... (read in full...)
What should I do when I like a man 10 years older than me?
Q. i found out the other day that this lad likes me but there are big problems one he is 28 and i am 18 and another one is my mam wont allow it but he seems to realy like me and i like him too i have done for sometime, i dont know what to do, they say ...
A. 7 August 2007: give it a chance, i was 18 when i met my 28 year old boyfriend (at the time) too. we've been together for a little over two years now and want to get married one day. being ten years apart gets you a lot of unwarranted advice and looks sometimes, ... (read in full...)
I am angry all the time!
Q. hello i have a big problem with my fiance.the problem is that i am angry all the time with silly things.my childhood was bad i dont love my mother. i think something is missing in my life. i cant be happy. I am always unhappy. I am always angry on ...
A. 7 August 2007: i also feel the same way, my childhood was screwed up too, my mom and dad are morons i don't associate with. im always trying to find things to fill that "hole" but nothing ever works, not money, not clothes, not even my fiance, if anything he ... (read in full...)
Do girls enjoy giving oral sex?
Q. Do girls actually like giving oral sex to guys or what? So many girls seem to have a real issue with it, like feeling subservient or degraded or something. But they don’t have any problem getting it!? What is all this double standards? I...
A. 4 August 2007: if she doesn't want to do it for you, find out why. if its something overcomeable then work with her, watch some movies so she sees how its done. i believe it's a million times better when you love the person and feel comfortable with them, because ... (read in full...)
Can he love me that much and still be that relentlessly cruel?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for five months. I hid my past relationships from him, because I didn't want him to think less of me. Last night, we fought on the phone for four hours. I finally told him the truth (I've kissed five boys...
A. 3 August 2007: just be sure you watch for warning signs, often verbal abuse turns into something more.... (read in full...)
Can he love me that much and still be that relentlessly cruel?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for five months. I hid my past relationships from him, because I didn't want him to think less of me. Last night, we fought on the phone for four hours. I finally told him the truth (I've kissed five boys...
A. 2 August 2007: he is ridiculous, trust me. i have been with those types of guys before and they will never respect you. don't let him make you feel like crap because you've experienced something, not to sound bad but i have done much more and there are many MEN ... (read in full...)
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