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I broke up with my fiance and now she's devastated. I feel so guilty. What now?

Q.   Hi, I feel so bad i just want to die somewhere alone. I got engaged to my girlfriend because she loves me to death and i thought that i would grow to feel the same way. I broke up on Friday the 10th three weeks before our marriage. She's complete...

A.   13 November 2006: Its a shame you left it so late to tell her. But a similar thing has happened to me. The most important thing is to explain to her your reasons ans give closure. It will help her in the long term and it is the most decent thing for you to do. Dont ... (read in full...)

He dumped me after 6 1/2 years as he was depressed, a week later he has someone new!!

Q.   i'm 24 and was dumped by my partner of 6 1/2years, 7 weeks ago, who said it was coz he was depressed at the time, he also said that he doesn't want a g/f or to go straight into another relationship. he didn't even want to try and work through any ...

A.   4 September 2006: It is difficult to say if he has been cheating on you without any evidence. After 6 years I would think that he would still have feelings for you which he has taken into his new relationship. Try not to think about whether his new relationship is ... (read in full...)

She wants to get back together, but not just yet, I thought things were well and truly over... should I wait ?

Q.   My wife and I split over a year ago and it is has taken me a long time to get back on my feet. We both made mistakes in how we treated one another and decided that it wasn't working. I am now in a new job, have a beautiful girlfriend and g...

A.   3 September 2006: It appears to me that you still have alot of feelings still for your wife but on the other hand you mention that you have a beautiful girlfriend. Only you know the true reasons for the separtion but I would suggest counselling however she still ... (read in full...)

He's a Muslim, Im a Catholic, is there any point to carrying on ?

Q.   i am nearly 18 and hav been with my boyfriend 3 months. We have the best relationship and love eachother dearly. The only problem is hes muslim and im catholic. The whole thing is a secret and both our families would kill us if they found out. Is ...

A.   3 September 2006: Yes your faiths may cause problems but this is a issue you both need to discuss in order to move forward and understand what you both want from the relationship. If you are both open and honest your relationship will develop and confronting your ... (read in full...)

Been with my Fiancee 7 years, also been seeing a guy at work for a year, not sure what to do ?

Q.   I have a problem not sure what to do. Im 25 and Ive been with my fiance for 7 years now and recently been disagreeing with most things - petty things mainly. I do love him in my own way but been seeing this other guy from work for about 1 yr now ...

A.   23 August 2006: What you are doing is wrong and it's not fair on your partner. You cant have the best of both worlds because one day it will back fire on you. If you love your partner you need to sort your issues out either between yourselves or you go and see a ... (read in full...)

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