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My names Jourdyn .! Im a really cool person.! I usually get along with everyone. I like helping people with there problems, mostly b-cuz i can usually relate to them. I've been through alot and i use all of my mistakes and experiences to help me and make me a better person. Im 14 years old, yea i kno pretty young huh.? I'm home schooled b-cuz i got expelled (long story) so when i'm done with my work i like to get on here and help people with there problems and help them with whatever there going through. Everyone needs someone to talk to and help them through, and that's what i like to do. When i grow up i would like to be a therapist. I just really like helping people.! :))

Even though i love to help people and be nice and all that . LOL I do have a bad side.! I'm bi-polar, so i usually have pretty bad mood swings, but I'm on meds. that help ! ;] Most people that are around me all the time usually call me a bitch. o'well. i really don't care what people think about me . I've found the one that i love and I'm happy with him and myself and i don't need anymore drama then i already have to deal with at home.!

I don't act my age.! I'm WAY mature for my age.! I've done stuff that people my age probably shouldn't do. I am sexually active. I'm on the "depo pervera shot".! I LOVE IT.! :))

I do smoke, i started smoking when i was 13 and I've tryed to quit MANY times but i always give in and smoke another cigarette.! I used to smoke weed but i had a pretty bad experience with that, so i quit that. i drink sometimes.! i used to cut myself because family problems were so bad. I'm in therapy now for pill popping, and anger problems :((

So yeah, most people judge me for what i HAVE done instead of what I AM doing.! So please don't judge me cause really you don't know me!!

So Yup Basically i just have a lot of free time on my hands and want to help people. So if you need advice, or just someone to talk to then IM HERE.!! (and just bcuz im 14 dosnt mean you cant talk to me) LOL :))

Texts at 3-4am from ex

Q.   Hi, i broke up with my boyfriend abut 4 months ago and we haven't spoken for at least 2 months and now he's been texting me every night about 3 or 4 in the morning. i really wanna know whether he still likes me or not cz i still love him ...

A.   16 January 2009: Yea, i agree with "sparkle wood" it sounds like he's just looking to get sum. but i might be wrong MAYBE he couldn't sleep and txt you cause he still has feelings for you, but the only way to find out is to talk to him.! so good luck :))... (read in full...)

He said he could see me in his fantasy

Q.   Ok i need some urgent advice. Bit of background - I am a 25 year old female who has never done anything with a bloke - very shy, however, i have always been a bit of a flirt but that's it. Me and a guy at work always flirt and today for some ...

A.   15 January 2009: so basically here's the truth he probably just wants to "do you" LOL. If he was interested in dating you then he would not have just said that he could see you in his fantasies which for a guy is like some thing really cool that they have always ... (read in full...)

He seems to be a little distant since his brother arrived...

Q.   Hello. I am a single mother of a 2 year old little girl. I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. He's an attractive, funny and smart guy. He has a nice job as well. We both have lots in common except he is 4 years my junior. He has a 3 year ...

A.   15 January 2009: ok you said that your bf and his brother were very distant, so they didn't talk much, or get to see each other. so maybe he's trying to spend time with his brother.! STOP freaking out.! it really sounds like he loves you ALOT . but he needs his time ... (read in full...)

I don't feel that "spark" any more between us.

Q.   I'm engaged to a great guy. Treats me better than I feel I deserve sometimes. We've been together for 5 years. We met when I was 19 he was 21. He had been engaged to a girl he had dated sense high school. She cheated on him and they broke up. Not ...

A.   15 January 2009: I think that if you really love him then you need to try! If you guys were meant to be then things will work out. Maybe your just scared right now you need to follow your heart. because YOUR the ONLY one that knows whats right for you. so listen to ... (read in full...)

Can I be pregnant if the guy didn't cum?

Q.   Ive had lots of sexual experiences, but im really clueless about it to be honest! So Im wondering.. -Can i be pregnant if the guy didnt cum? -Would I notice if the condom breaks? -If a guy cums in my ass is there any possibility it might som...

A.   13 January 2009: even if the guy does not cum he still leaks . which is the point before he has an orgasm and cum will leak out of the penis. so yes if you don't use a condom then you could get pregnant even if he dosnt "cum". no you probably wouldn't notice if the ... (read in full...)

I get no pleasure out of sex

Q.   Ive had alot of sex, but ive NEVER had an orgasm with a guy. I think Ive had an orgasm while touching myself, but even then I was only rubbing my clit...and there was no "cum". Did it count as an orgasm or was it just me thinking I had one!? A...

A.   13 January 2009: i had the same problem . i had sex all the time and never had an orgasm. i had had an orgasm before but it was while masturbating and that was from touching my clit. so i talked to my partner about that and now while having sex we'll find a position ... (read in full...)

Period 9 days late!

Q.   Hi any advice would really help me I slept with boyfriend a few times without using any contraceptive. I know this was stupid so please do not point that out. But i am now 9 days late, but i have taken 3 seperate pregnancy test which all say ne...

A.   13 January 2009: its okay dont freak out. just wait about a week later. (everyone can be late) . if still no period then you might want to take another test if its still negative then you'll probally want to see your doctor.!!... (read in full...)

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