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He said he could see me in his fantasy

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Question - (15 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok i need some urgent advice.

Bit of background - I am a 25 year old female who has never done anything with a bloke - very shy, however, i have always been a bit of a flirt but that's it.

Me and a guy at work always flirt and today for some reason we started to talk about his fantasies, he then said he could just see me in the context of what his fantasy was i was a little shocked at the time but laughed it off as usual, he has sent me a text saying he would like it to come true, the problem is i am one not that kinky and two i don'y think he knows i am a virgin because like i say we just have a laugh, how should i reply, i mean i really do like this guy but i don't want him to think i weird for never dating etc. any advice welcome

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009):

Sorry but he is not interested in you for a relationship darling. Just sex , my advice is don't reply and don't go for it

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A female reader, sexylette United States +, writes (15 January 2009):

sexylette agony auntso basically here's the truth he probably just wants to "do you" LOL. If he was interested in dating you then he would not have just said that he could see you in his fantasies which for a guy is like some thing really cool that they have always wanted to do. which in your case it sounds like more of a sexual fantasy.! So if your looking for more of a relation ship kinda thing then he's not your guy.!! Sorry to tell you that .! maybe you should talk to him about it, if you really like him, and if he like you then TALK.!

Good Luck :))

Hope I Helped.!

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