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Hi I'm Em. Iam 16 years old. I give all my mates good advice (or so they tell me!). It's not necesseraly advice i would take but it is good. I live near Birmingham, England. I play saxophone and football. I am in a happy relationship and have been for 6 months

How likely is it that my parents can find out of my viewing porn over the net though I have deleted the history?

Q.   I am 14 years old and I have recently been looking at porn on the internet. I am really worried that this is illegal or that my dad might find out. I know how to delete the history so he can't find out that way but I am still really worried. I'm not ...

A.   29 September 2007: why does everyone assume that I'm male?!... (read in full...)

I've got a sore bum!

Q.   ok this is really embarrassin but i hav a serious problem. it might be nothing but i hav a really sore but hole. i think i may hav seen blood. it doesnt look very red. my mum is a nurse so if i have 2 i could ask her but i don't really want to. does ...

A.   13 August 2007: i though that it was piles at first but its not at all itchy.... (read in full...)

Should I eventually tell my kids I was raped as a teen?

Q.   I was raped at the age of 14, my husband knows about this, and is very supportive of it, should i tell my children, when they are old enough?...

A.   20 October 2006: Why would your children need to know? It's not really going to affect them. If you mean tell them so they can learn from your experiences then I think you should but otherwise they don't really need to know.... (read in full...)

My 16-year-old son likes to wear bikinis! What can I do?

Q.   I'm a father of two, one 9 year old son and one 16 year old son. Recently I found out that my 16-year-old son likes wearing bikinis. I asked him if it was true, and he admitted it was so. He told me he isn't gay or a cross-dresser, j...

A.   4 May 2006: Help him by not judging him. I may only be 13 but if my Mum or Dad about me dressing as a man it wouldn't make me trust them very much. When he admited it he proberly didn't expect you to be angry/upset/worried he just wanted your support. Give him ... (read in full...)

I'm 16, a mum, and expecting twins! If I tell the baby's dad, I'm afraid he'll leave!

Q.   I am 16 years old and I already have a son called Nicholas. I recently found out I am three months pregnant. Yesterday I went for a scan and have found out that I am expecing twins - I'm together with the father but I know how he will react to this ...

A.   30 January 2006: You should definatley tell him, he has a right to know. If he leaves then he's not someone you want in your life or your babie's. It'll be better if you tell him sooner though because he's more likley to leave if he hears it form someone else. Hope ... (read in full...)

How much masturbation is too much?

Q.   Hello, I'm 13 years old, though rather mature for my age. However I masturbate 2-3 times a day sometimes. Is this too much? ...

A.   30 January 2006: You can masturbate as much as your hands (and penis can manage). Just make sure it doesn't take over your life!... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mum?

Q.   well theres this boy in my class and quite a few girls in the class fancy him. to me hes ok. and we were talking to eachother adn invited me to his bday party. i would go but im embarrased about telling my mum. should i tell her? or make out that im ...

A.   30 January 2006: Your mum should be the one person you should be honest with. If you are embaressed about telling her beacause it's aboys b'day party tell her your'e going to support a mate or tell her the boy is just your mate. If you are embaressed about telling ... (read in full...)

My sister won't leave off about my friendship with a man. We're all adults and I think she's obsessing!

Q.   I am after some advice about my sister’s behaviour (she is 28) which I find unacceptable. A male friend (from childhood) and I have recently got back in contact after around 12 years. I am early 30’s and he is early 20’s. We are good friends, ...

A.   30 January 2006: She may be acting this way because she jelous or hurt. Either way you need to sit down and talk to her. Tell her that her behavour is hurting you and ask her what her problem is. If you and this man are just friends then she should be happy that ... (read in full...)

So mad at my boyfriend for having sex with someone before we were an item. I know it's me with the problem, but what do I do?

Q.   I need some help getting over something coz I just don't know how to!!! My now-boyfriend slept with someone when we were seeing each other but before it was official. It was a one night stand and he says she meant nothing but I just can't get o...

A.   30 January 2006: I think it's quite normal to be anoyed but he didn't know that he was gonna be with you. Have you never slept with anyone before him? Just try and ignore the fact because he wouldn't be with you if he didn't like you better. If you think he still ... (read in full...)

Almost 16. No boyfriend. My folks keep an eagle-eye on me!

Q.   Help I am nearly 16 and I haven't had a boyfriend and it's really depressing me. I never get to meet anyone during the holidays because my parents take me to France every holiday and then make sure I am in their sight the whole time. Please help. I ...

A.   13 June 2005: If you just get a boyfriend then you're not really giving them much choice coz it's your life not theirs. Don't do anything stupid and choose a boy that you think your parents will aprove of...it always works for me and I'm only 12! Good Luck! S... (read in full...)

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