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I cheated with a younger man, now I feel awful. How do I get the spark back?

Q.   i live with my partner of 4 years. 6 months ago we bought our own place but we had lived together for around 3 years before this. my feelings seemed to have changed, he is the most wonderful, caring and supportive man but i feel that there is no...

A.   28 December 2005: you can't undo the past, so you better forget it, and move on with your life. enjoy the wonderful man you have and just don't think about it anymore. good luck!... (read in full...)

My bf's looking at my attractive friend is just a coincidence. That's what he says, anyway...

Q.   Dear anyone: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for quite a while now. We love each other so much, and it's as if we understand each others' emotions. This is the thing: When we are together, and we are in public, or with ...

A.   19 December 2005: I think you should confront him seriously and tell him you don't like these situations and that he better changes or he will lose you, as you won't tolerate that. You must be tough: luckily, it won't happen again, if you scare him enough.... (read in full...)

Can't feel good about my post-childbirth body, even though my boyfriend still says I'm sexy. I just don't feel sexy!

Q.   I recently had a baby about 4 months ago. I appreciate what my body has done to bring my baby into the world but I just feel really unsexy now that I droop and hang and have all the stretch marks. My bf says he still finds me sexy but he looks at...

A.   19 December 2005: I agree with KellyO. You can recover your old figure quickly!... (read in full...)

He tells me I'm a crybaby one moment, then tells me how much he loves me the next! Help!

Q.   I love my husband. Very much. However, I just don't know what to do. First, we have been married 6 years, with no children. I have a wonderful career, and my job pays everything. He works 2-3 days a week, and refuses to work anymore, saying he ...

A.   19 December 2005: If he has lung cancer, he must be through a tough phase in his life and you must comprehend that it's difficult to think about death and the future. But it is no reason for him to treat you badly. You must tell him you love him and that you always ... (read in full...)

When my boyfriend and I kiss, he gets so hot he even masturbates in front of me!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out since two years. We have got a little bit of physical but have never done sex. It's on the basis of understanding that we won't have it before marriage. The problem is that when we kiss and all, we really e...

A.   19 December 2005: I think that if you don't feel it's right for him to do that, you must tell him. It's normal and healthy that he feels aroused close to you, but if you dislike his attitudes, and feel it's unappropriate, tell him so. Good luck.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants experience with other men! What do I do?

Q.   My younger girlfriend says she loves me, but wants to get as much experience as me. I've had ten partners, she only two and she says thats unfair. She says it will just be for sexual experience and won't hurt our relationship. She wants me to agree ...

A.   19 December 2005: I agree with KellyO. If she really loved you, you would be the only man she would ever need. Talk to her about it, and tell her that past experiences are PAST experiences! If she still doesn't agree, then maybe she isn't the girl you need. Good ... (read in full...)

He broke up with me, when all I wanted was a break.

Q.   Hey, Iv'e been w/my BF for almost 2 years now. The first 3 months we had a lot of love and affection until a cop caught us making out at a nearby park in our car, Matt - my bf - stopped making out with me since then, and I moved to Florida ...

A.   17 December 2005: You must talk to him, and ask him the real reason why he wants to break up, because it can't be the time out you asked for. Be gentle, and make him tell the truth.... (read in full...)

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