I don't understand why I keep falling for girls who are already taken. Can anyone suggest why I do this?
Q. I have a history of falling for girls who were already taken, in relationships, married, or who were themselves in love with someone else. Any help as to why a person would always let this happen and what to do about it?...
A. 6 October 2012: @ aunt honesty: perhaps the thrill of the chase, or just the idea of stealing a woman away from another man turns me on subconciously, but realistically, chasing AVAILABLE women might be better idea if I could get up the nerve to go find them.
... (read in full...)
How to flirt with women?
Q. I'm a 29 year old guy looking for advice on how, where and when to flirt with women. I stopped trying after my early 20s and I've become pretty clueless and insecure. I'm looking to get back in the game. Any suggestions? ...
A. 27 July 2012: I completely understand the value of being sincere. I don't want to be a fake person and put on an act. The problem with 'being myself' seems to be that who I 'actually am' is just kind of nice, boring and uninteresting, at least where attraction is ... (read in full...)
My younger brother is getting married while I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me
Q. I'm 29, my brother is 26 and he recently proposed to his girlfriend. I am very happy for them both, but also jealous. I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me and I don't have the guts to put myself out there...
A. 1 July 2012: Presario2010 - I'm certainly hoping my brother has a long, happy marriage.
Anonymous 1 - I'm only really a pessimist about my love life. I'm working towards success in other areas.
Anonymous 2 - I try to work on building a social network in gener... (read in full...)
Have I missed the boat on dating and getting married?
Q. I'm 29 years old and I've never been in the dating or hookup scene. I didn't date in high school or college. I had two long distance relationships, the last one ended when I was 23. I have since been celibate. I have had many female friends, family ...
A. 4 June 2012: I'm a male.... (read in full...)
How did you meet your special someone?
Q. How did you guys/girls here meet your special someone, if you currently have someone, or did in the past? I've been attracted to many girls in my life and obsessed over a few, but never really pursued anyone. All of the ...
A. 24 April 2012: I need to be less passive and more confident in what I have to offer potential mates as well as potential friends, employers and the like.... (read in full...)
How did you meet your special someone?
Q. How did you guys/girls here meet your special someone, if you currently have someone, or did in the past? I've been attracted to many girls in my life and obsessed over a few, but never really pursued anyone. All of the ...
A. 23 April 2012: Wow, thank you for sharing! A graveyard! Good to be reminded that people can meet anywhere! I like hearing about other people's stories because I have none of my own. Hard to believe I'll be 30 soon and as far as this type of human experience I may ... (read in full...)
I want intimacy in a relationship and don't know where to start
Q. I'm in the process of making changes in my life and I need help figuring out how to have the types of relationships that I want but have missed out on. I don't have any friends I can talk to about this and I can't afford therapy. I am a 29 year...
A. 4 February 2012: CodeWarrior: I am DEFINITELY in a target poor environment and have been for some time. I have no available women in my social circle and that circle hasn't changed much over the years. I'm trying to find better work, as the work I do have is ... (read in full...)
I want intimacy in a relationship and don't know where to start
Q. I'm in the process of making changes in my life and I need help figuring out how to have the types of relationships that I want but have missed out on. I don't have any friends I can talk to about this and I can't afford therapy. I am a 29 year...
A. 4 February 2012: Heh, I know I probably have a skewed view of what young is, seeing others my age having already moved on to other life stages and thinking that means they're 'older' somehow. I know it seems crazy, but as a musician who plays out, I don't hav... (read in full...)
| *anitysoul28's friends
These are mutual friends, so *anitysoul28 has
added them and they have added *anitysoul28!
|
