Why has he stopped calling and stopped responding to me?
Q. met this guy in early summer. He was such a sweetheart but my head was somewhere else at the time. We talked everyday but it just was never like that. Then we actually started hanging out and going out things were great i was really starting to like ...
A. 2 October 2008: Hi,
focus on doing something for yourself, and let it go. If this man does not value you for whom you are, move on
Take care... (read in full...)
Another "he didn't call" question!
Q. Hi all...another he didn't call question...I am the account rep for a company that does business with his company. Both of us are divorced with a child, no problems there. He asked me out to lunch one day and I was unable to go, then he asked me to ...
A. 2 October 2008: Hello
take it slow. He has voiced his intentions. Let him take the lead. However, continue doing what makes you happy and feel fulfilled.
Take care
All the best
Let me know how you get on... (read in full...)
How long into dating did you become an official couple?
Q. I met this guy a couple of month ago, we started dating soon afterwards, about 3 weeks ago, we talked about what situation we were in, I was a bit upset when he said we weren't in the stage of relationship, because we act like we are gf and bf ...
A. 30 September 2008: Hello
I can understand the tone of your email.
Relationships are a partnership of compromise, compensating and complimenting each other.
Be honest. What do you want?
In the beginning, dating is the process of discovery....
Let the rela... (read in full...)
Should I leave so that he can find someone new and experience love like everybody else?
Q. Lately, my husband has benn acting very distant, absent, and uninterested. When I confronted him, he told me that he wants to leave me and that he has no feelings for me. He accused me of marrying him out of convenience. I told him that I loved him ...
A. 30 September 2008: Hello,
the key to the tone of your email is in your expressed awareness, willingness to communicate and work at the relationship as partners.
I would highly recommend the two of you start dating again, revisiting your objectives as a ... (read in full...)
I really don't know if I should continue the relationship, because I get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife
Q. i'm in a relationship with a guy who is much older than i am, he is happily married with kids, i know he loves his wife so much. i really dont know if i should continue the relationship cos i get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife, He is th...
A. 30 September 2008: Hello,
your email answers your question as the man concerned is "happily married", you know he loves his wife and you feel hurt whenever he speaks about his wife.
With due respect, you are worthy of a respectful partnership.
Please, please,... (read in full...)
A carrot, an egg and a coffee bean...what are you??
Q. Found another inspiring story that i wanted to share..in life we all have trials. Sometimes it feels the easiest way to do is to quit and give up..I have, on many occasions asked ,Why me? Why does it seem that I am not getting any break in life.. ...
A. 27 September 2008: Thank you for sharing such an inspirational and wonderful read. Take care... (read in full...)
Does anyone have a happy ending to a story like mine?
Q. This is a story about life, and why its too precious and limited to hav regrets and unexplored loves. I have a regret and the more time goes by, the more the regret eats away at my conscience. its long and probably not of big interest to u, b...
A. 27 September 2008: Bless, be kind to yourself. You are a loveable, loving and worthy of a partnership. Take time for you. Define goals for yourself. Slowly work at achieving those goals. Celebrate and applaud your journey. Continue to express yourself, but do... (read in full...)
Swinger's story: We are two married couples that exchanged partners but we handled it badly; bitterness and fights followed!
Q. We started out as friends. Five years ago, we were a DINK couple who doted their two kids and found the parents to be sincere, loving, simple but honest. Over time we got to know each other even better when we were between houses and moved in with ...
A. 27 September 2008: I applaud your self awareness. However, there are lessons to be learnt from the consequences of indulging in such behaviour. Take those lessons on board. Communicate. Communicate, and move forward. Take care ... (read in full...)
What do men like in a woman? A strong woman or a girly type?
Q. being a young lady growing up in todays society I feel a little confused as to what a womans role is anymore ? or what do men find attractive in a woman ? I am very aware of womens lib and i do support it, but a little part of me can't help bu...
A. 27 September 2008: What do men like in a woman? In my opinion, men behave in an individualistic manner. Sometimes, it is far too easy for us to pigeon hole what we think men may like in a woman. Yet, in my professional opinion, while listening to men expressi... (read in full...)
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