How do we get in touch with women in 2021
Q. Hello all :-) Asking you guys again since you were so helpful to me last time I needed advice and someone to talk to. (See: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-leave-a-10-year-relationship-or.html) Basically, I'm trying to return to the ...
A. 9 April 2021: @kenny, thank you for the answer. Going to continue with the language classes, even if I am not that thrilled about learning the language anymore. Interest in these classes has declined, possibly many who take those classes doing it for purpose/h... (read in full...)
Do I leave a 10 year relationship? Or settle for her?
Q. Hello all. This post is as much venting as asking for others input. The sad truth is that I have nobody to talk to. So sorry if it is long. The big life question I have is: break up with my girlfriend, or settle for her. It is more than just...
A. 3 March 2021: Hello all,
just wanted to thank you all for the advice you gave me 18 months ago, and give you a brief update.
I broke up with my ex over a year ago. I now consider her having some sort of covert narcissistic personality disorder. But th... (read in full...)
Do I leave a 10 year relationship? Or settle for her?
Q. Hello all. This post is as much venting as asking for others input. The sad truth is that I have nobody to talk to. So sorry if it is long. The big life question I have is: break up with my girlfriend, or settle for her. It is more than just...
A. 26 August 2019: Thank you all, especially @Honeypie and @Fatherly Advice.
The thought of strangers trying to help me without any hidden motives or expectations of reciprocation has left me touched. I cannot thank you enough.
This is another long ramble from... (read in full...)
Ways to deal with hunger when trying to lose weight
Q. ive recently decided to stop going to weight watchers as I no longer enjoy it so I think its pointless me paying money for it but I do find myself feeling very hungry throughout the day and sometimes comfort eating, im aiming to go exercise more...
A. 21 August 2019: If you are hungry and trying to lose weight you are doing it wrong.
The funny thing is that the body adapts its energy consumption to the amount of energy available - when you are hungry your body will try to save on energy.
For losing we... (read in full...)
He made out that I was punishing him when I asked him to sleep on the sofa
Q. hi I have a quick question if anyone has any helpful opinions it would be much appreciated. myself and my boyfriend recently relocated countries for work. my boyfriend originally came out 3 months ahead of me and had already a small support sy...
A. 21 August 2019: Sounds like you have tried to explain to him why you wanted him to sleep on the sofa.
Perhaps try posing your problem to him: how does he suggest you get you sleep the nights when you have back to back shifts?
Your boyfriend should show some... (read in full...)
Does my partner have the right to know about the details of my therapy sessions?
Q. Hi. I won't bore you with too many details. Just want to know if you think it is appropriate for your spouse/partner to ask you about the details of your therapy sessions? I was diagnosed with anxiety and PTSD. I have begun counselling rece...
A. 21 August 2019: As many others have said: no.
Your partner should respect your privacy and not ask too much even. But he/she should listen if you feel like talking about it.... (read in full...)
Do I leave a 10 year relationship? Or settle for her?
Q. Hello all. This post is as much venting as asking for others input. The sad truth is that I have nobody to talk to. So sorry if it is long. The big life question I have is: break up with my girlfriend, or settle for her. It is more than just...
A. 20 August 2019: Thank you all for the answers. Your words have been on my mind all day today.
Was little worried that the women here would take the female's side automatically.
But thank you for not doing so automatically.
Maybe my relationship sounded... (read in full...)
Would a man be put off by a woman in her 30s if she isn't that worldly?
Q. I had a general question about men and their opinion on women they date and the amount of life Experience they have or expect them to have ? I am in my 30’s have been abroad a couple of times but by no means much, I have had a small handful of...
A. 20 August 2019: I am just as baffled as the next guy by this question.
Short answer: No. Not put off at all.... (read in full...)
Feel like I'm wasting my life but my reasons for wanting to leave seem petty
Q. I have being in my current relationship for the past 8 years and at the moment I am questioning whether it is what I want for the long-term. I feel that after 8 years together, we should be living together or at least have a clear plan for the fut...
A. 19 August 2019: First, there are no "petty" reasons. Only you can tell what is important enough FOR YOU to leave someone.
You are both quite young, and many people (at least guys) are not ready to commit until past 30. Also you are young enough to be able to ... (read in full...)
Wife is angry that I hugged a co-worker
Q. My wife is angry I hugged a female former co-worker/friend that I have known for 10 years. When we seen this old co worker I have not seen her in 2 years and she is over 20 years older than me. She has met my kids. When my mother passed she sent ...
A. 18 August 2019: This strikes close to home for me. My gf has done almost the same thing, a few times for similar reasons. In our case there is no ring, so she has dumped me, just to have me beg to take her back.
It is a technique of showing dominance, and to h... (read in full...)
My husband has completely changed after marriage and I feel exploited
Q. Hello and thanks! Me and my husband have been together almost 3 years. Before our marriage he was mind, sweet, loving. He seemed to be the most charming man I've ever met. He would look after me if I was sick, once I passed out from heat exhaus...
A. 16 August 2019: My fear is that you have discovered the real him. People can wear a mask for a few years.
Was he pushing for the marriage?... (read in full...)
I found out my husband bought what appears to be a virtual phone number. Why would he do this?
Q. My husband's phone was left on the counter yesterday. He was checking his usage on his mobile phone account. And the screen was open. I peeked. I know, I was wrong for breaching privacy but it's too late, I did it. I scrolled the history and back ...
A. 14 August 2019: I have bought a virtual number. Some apps (like LINE or Telegram) require a phone number for verification, and at least I do not want to give a "real" number.... (read in full...)
My prince charming has turned into a frog
Q. Hello and thank you My husband was very charming, and loving before we got married. After our marriage things changed. It seems he doesn't like compromising and feels he can still act single. He talks to exes( no children involved) he goe...
A. 14 August 2019: People will always try to push you as far as you will go. Only you decide where your line is.... (read in full...)
Is what is happening to me financial abuse?
Q. Would you call this financial abuse? I go to work and support my husband who has little respect for me anyway. He also pressures me to sometimes support his parents as he so desperately wants to please them, even though they are just using him and ...
A. 14 August 2019: There is something missing here for me.
How come he is not pulling his weight?
Why are you supporting both of you (and his parents)?... (read in full...)
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