My friend is too much, but she needs me. I don't know what to do.
Q. I have a friend and I find her to be rather stressful. I am a very positive person but she is a very negative person and I find she is draining on me, my energies and my positive vibes. She calls me every day and every time she whines and moans ...
A. 17 June 2008: Your health is a major issue here. Your a very kind person and a good friend but you have to put your well being first. Talk to your friend and tell her how her negativity is affecting you, explain how frustrating it is to have her accept your adv... (read in full...)
We've had many fights...but I never expected it to turn out like this...!! Any advice appreciated
Q. My boyfriend and I got into a heated argument last night while he was drunk he snapped from being fine to screaming at me and calling me.a whore and all those other lovely names people call one another. He wanted to get up to leave I stood in the ...
A. 17 June 2008: Ok Stella, it's time to take the bull by the horns and look the facts in the face. This relationship is past breaking point.
Lets get some perspective. This is just one of the intimate relationships that you will have in your life. Your life is ... (read in full...)
My straight friend who has a girlfriend made out with me; I like him but I don't want to hurt anyone
Q. I am a comfortably gay 24 year old male. Recently I met a 23 year old straight male that I have hung out with a couple times and really have come to like (both as a friend but also am strongly attracted to him). We were out late last weekend and he ...
A. 6 July 2007: you sound like a thoughtful and decent person. Let this guy know that while he has a partner you cant have that kind of a relationship with him. ... (read in full...)
Afraid my small weiner will put her off!
Q. This is really urgent i am new to ths so i hope it gets sent out. I have a really small penis it is roughly 5 inches when erect. Can anyone tell me what the average size is? But thats not all my girl wants us to masturbate each other this SATURDAY. ...
A. 6 July 2007: Most girls would not consider you to be 'small' you're fine. Dont give it another thought, just relax and enjoy your evening together. ... (read in full...)
I'm so tired of my disasterous relationship; how can I fix things?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 9 years (5 of which we have been married). I met my husband when I was 20 and we moved away together. I was enamored with him from the start. He is brilliant in science and architechure and runs his own company. He ...
A. 22 June 2007: This relationship has made you unhappy for a long time. Guilt is a negative emotion and a pointless one in this case. Your responsiblity is to yourself and your son if you are happy he will be too. It is time for a whole new start, You do have the ... (read in full...)
He shows me no affection; I have to ask for cuddles!
Q. Thank you for your help but I have more to add. My parents are both loving and although sometimes cringeworthy, they act like love sick teenages and they have been together for 33 years. I have longed for someone to be silly like that with me but ...
A. 22 June 2007: What would be best for you? you need affection and intimacy and if you deny yourself this then you wont be happy, Your partner has told you he does not share these needs. Talk to him, tell him that cannot spend your whole life without physical ... (read in full...)
Does someone appreciate you more if you refuse contact for a while?
Q. if you have a fallen out with someone you care about (who is used to hearing from you daily)and you stop calling and texting them do you think they will appreciate you more for not bugging them?...
A. 22 June 2007: If you are witholding contact to get appreciation, then you are doing it for the wrong reasons. If you are doing it because you truly think it is what this person wants, but you are not sure, then the best thing to do is to ask what they want, not ... (read in full...)
I love him but he doesn't seem to care either way
Q. i have split up with my partner two days ago because of the way he treats me. we don't live together, however, i know his not cheating on me. he dose not come down to see me, instead he tells me to come down to see him all the time. he has said some ...
A. 22 June 2007: you are sending him mixed messages too. By going back to him each time, you are telling him that it is ok to treat you badly, that you'll put up with it. You are leaving for the wrong reasons, you want him to show he cares by asking you to come ... (read in full...)
Do you think his "me time" is excessive or am I being paranoid here?
Q. hi, well, I am new to this but need to ask all of you out there whether I am going mad. I am happily married with 2 small kids and love the majority of my life. However, my husband has stated that he "needs" to go out at least 3 - 4 evenings a week ...
A. 28 May 2007: If your husbands behaviour is making you unhappy, then it's a problem. while you are putting up with a situation that makes you feel insecure you risk damaging your self esteem - your needs are very important too.
Your husbands behaviour coul... (read in full...)
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