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Afraid my small weiner will put her off!

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Question - (6 July 2007) 18 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is really urgent i am new to ths so i hope it gets sent out. I have a really small penis it is roughly 5 inches when erect. Can anyone tell me what the average size is? But thats not all my girl wants us to masturbate each other this SATURDAY. i am 16 but i am afraid i will put her off because my penis is small. i really love has any1 got any tips?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):

my girl measured mine and it's only 5.5...i feel really uncomfortable now

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007):

small or big if u enjoy it its fine :p

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A female reader, broken baby United States +, writes (16 August 2007):

normal teenage size is 4 to 6 inches or 7 to 8 besides your still not done growing even so does she love you alot to where she shouldnt care?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007):

hey, mine is about the same size and i have been dumped cause my penis was too small my last gf told me that with all the guys shes been with i have the secound smallest penis she has ever seen and shes seen a lot of them

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007):

Is it me or does every dude on here worried about their size say it is 5 inches? I'd say that must now be average. Like exactly average.

Think about it this way. Would you not have dated her if her boobs were a little smaller?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007):

Girlworld claims its the girth, not the length that matters... but honestly, its ridiculous! Penis emphasis is like focusing on the skinny girls. You overlook all the good ones that are a little out of the norm. ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007):

You normal size for your age.You dont stop growing till 21.. Anyways there are other things you can do try going down on her.That will fix every thing she will always have good remembering

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007):

hey well i dont know average size for 16 but im 12 and my penis is 5 inches when erected but i hope mines big enough because my girl wants to give me a hand job soon

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007):

hi, im 17 and im probably about 4.5 inches... so going by the advice here... thats small, but not TOO small?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007):

well this weekend went ok i tried to stay calm and relaxed and let nature take its course. she noticed the size and said it was smaller than what she expected. i was a little put off but we got through it. how can maybe next time i make things go better?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007):

HAY don't worriey just have a great time a small penis is around 2'' 3''inches. ur not big but ur not little ur fine.for me im canna scare of huge penises. i think they may hurt for my first time. a normal penis is 7/half inchs.ur good.HAVE A GREAT TIME!!!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

Guess what? If your g/f is 16 years old too, and hasn't really been with alot of other guys, she's probably pretty tight and pretty small down there too. Which means, it'll be a nice fit. I've been with a few guys who had smaller members and I can tell you from experience, if you act confident, and attentive and you are a "giver" in bed, size won't be a factor. My b/f has a much smaller penis than the last b/f, but he doesn't call attention to the size and fret over it, he just acts like the confident lover that he is, and it wows me every time. So don't make comments, or call attention to the size of it while you're together (she may not even notice, I mean afterall how many penises has she actually seen to compare it to?) Just do what feels good and have fun. The less scrutiny the better.

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A female reader, RubyBooth United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2007):

Most girls would not consider you to be 'small' you're fine. Dont give it another thought, just relax and enjoy your evening together.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

I've seen other smaller penises than yours... like mine! haha... don't feel to down because of that... size doesn't matter... it's the pleasure that counts... ;)

good luck though. :)

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (6 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI know this Saturday will be special for you, and I assume you're having these questions in anticipation for it. Man, everyone has had those concerns, and in the end we all learn to enjoy ourselves. Whatever the size of your penis, that's what you've got. Focus on making better use of it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

HUNNY,

Relax its not all about size, worry and you will have more problems, just enjoy you night in together and im sure everything will be fine, us girls dont worry as much as you guys think we do TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXX

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A female reader, LauraE United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2007):

OK, some men have bigger ones - but yours is normal - it isn't tiny at all. I'm not just saying that to reassure you, it is. If you act like everything is fine, so will she. She isn't going to whip out a tape measure, you know. There is one really good tip. Concentrate your efforts on her enjoyment. Ask her how she likes it, and show her plenty of affection as well. You will be fine!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

Don't panic! If anything, your nerves on saturday could affect ur performance (and how hard you get) so u need to relax. I know you arent actually planning to have sex on saturday but just for future reference- its not size its what u do with it (that is a FACT me and my girlfriends all agree). If she loves you she won't care. And if you are really worried about it why don't you show HER a really good time and focus on HER? If you are really attentive and generous to her she will be able to tell that you love her she really really won't care about the size of your penis.

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