How do I get a girl friend if none are sexually attracted to me?
Q. How do you get a girl friend if nobody is sexually attracted to you? I am 35 and single and have been single all my life. I have never even had a one day relationship with a woman. It seems to me that it would be creepy to just go up to a woman yo...
A. 2 July 2012: I don't know who these girls are or what "type" of person they are. But it's possible that your problem is your putting too much focus on the physical. With love, you have to be a bit selfish. You have to fight a little bit for what you want, ne... (read in full...)
What are my options? He will not be social. Tells me to go alone. Trust is shattered. Help!
Q. After being married for 12 years and two little children, I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out of this marriage. He has always been anti social making excuses about why he doesn’t want to go to gatherings and then saying I...
A. 2 July 2012: The two of you should go to a marriage counseling. What your friends have said seems spot on to me. However, if you do love him, and he loves you, it's possible that you can change it and make things better. But, if you do intend to work with him on ... (read in full...)
My male friend has a crush on me but I'm not interested in him, but I don't want to lose the friendship either! What should I do?
Q. Hello there, I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I'll just dive right in. I have mostly guy friends. I never really seem to get along with girls, so most of my best friends are guys. My boyfriend of ten months is totally fine with this, never ...
A. 29 June 2012: So, you're 16-17, and he is a few younger, so probably 13-15. That is a very common thing actually, you're not alone there. I think the key is communication though. First, talk to your boyfriend, and to your parents. From your parents you'll b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I don't get on with each other's friends!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for about 18 months or so, we were friends before this also and we love each other dearly. we both worked hard at university and have graduate positions and promising careers ahead of us. however, there is a problem, we ...
A. 29 June 2012: There seems to simply be a gap between you and his friends. That doesn't mean there's anything with your relationship, just that you are different than the friends he grew up with. If he has picked you, and he loves, why worry? The important ... (read in full...)
Should I perform oral sex on my B/f just to make him happy? Or should he respect my decision and not make me feel bad for not doing it?
Q. My long distance boyfriend keeps asking me to perform oral sex on him. We have had numerous discussions sometimes resulting in arguments in which I explain that I'm not comfortable doing so and he tells me it would make him happy so I should. Before ...
A. 29 June 2012: I'm sorry, but I don't agree with Cerberus on just a few points. In his very last sentence, that last line at the bottom, I don't think you should do that. I think this isn't a matter of what you like or don't like right now, but a matter of just ... (read in full...)
How do I save my marriage after all this?
Q. I have been with my husband for 2 years.We have only been married for 5 months. We have seperated about 4 times for about two weeks each time during our two years together.This last time we seperated I honestly thought it was the end I even asked ...
A. 29 June 2012: Short answer, you save a marriage with love, and with prayer. Now if religion is not your thing, then you fix it with tons and tons of love.
I'm only 18, and I have not even been engaged. But I feel as if I can at least give you some ideas an... (read in full...)
Should I perform oral sex on my B/f just to make him happy? Or should he respect my decision and not make me feel bad for not doing it?
Q. My long distance boyfriend keeps asking me to perform oral sex on him. We have had numerous discussions sometimes resulting in arguments in which I explain that I'm not comfortable doing so and he tells me it would make him happy so I should. Before ...
A. 29 June 2012: Ahhh, thank you so much for coming here and looking for some advice and opinions!
Short answer, God no! You said this guy is long distance, that's dangerous. What I mean is, this is a HUGE step to you, I can tell that, and it's a pretty darn big... (read in full...)
Should I let this crush just die the way I've let other crushes do or could this be a girl I finally have a chance with?
Q. 20 year old male here who hasn't had any luck with women ever. In high school, I was seen as a monster by the majority of my female peers (likely due to not being an athlete or anything of real worth beyond one of the quasi-artsy kids) and in ...
A. 27 June 2012: If you're a lifeguard, then you must be at least in shape. So you've got that going for you. But really, I think the trick here, is, well, be yourself. I know that's cheesy and you've heard so many times before on TV, but I know this is what would ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my Cousin, help?
Q. Really stuck....My cousin is really pretty. Since we were young we had a sexual attraction to one another. We understood each other and were sort of like siblings. We did that sort of I'll show you yours you show me mine. And we even kissed as ...
A. 27 June 2012: Let's say you do it. Let's say it's even a great experience. But what happens if your parents don't approve? What happens if it ends up ruining your relationship with your cousin, in the same way a break up can end a friendship. There are a lot ... (read in full...)
I have really, really low self-esteem and I'm trying to work on it but it's not really going anywhere.
Q. Hi, I'm a 21 year old girl who's never had a boyfriend or even gone on a date. I have also never been physically close to a boy. No hand-holding, kissing, let alone sex. The reason I started with this is because I feel like it literally define...
A. 27 June 2012: First of all, you are very well spoken. I feel as if you are a very intelligent lady, and that is attractive. Secondly, you know yourself very well, better than most people do. I know you have low self-esteem, but trust me, there is value in unde... (read in full...)
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