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How can we be friends when I still love him?

Q.   My ex bf and I broke up about a month ago. We just recently started talking again, and now i feel so sad. We havent actually talked face to face, weve been passing notes. Well in one of those notes he told me that he still loved me and probably...

A.   10 May 2011: The only way to get over a boy is to cut contact with him , Don't talk to him for long periods of time (Keep it short)!! In order for the two of you to be friends you need to get over him , so for now stay far away from him and keep yourself busy ... (read in full...)

Should I blame myself for what happened between us?

Q.   I need help I need to know if I am right. So there is this guy I met in primary school we hadn't talked since we moved to secondary school as he left but we got talking on Facebook and he came ovet. After a lot of talking we hugged and kissed and ...

A.   10 May 2011: At age 16, you shouldn't even be having any sort of sexually intimacy! I think that BOTH of you are to blame, things like that don't only happen because of one person - Clearly the both of yous wanted to 'hook up' and so you did! The fact that he ... (read in full...)

What's reasonable in this situation?

Q.   My friend invited me to her house, as r bf's were going to come to her house so we could all hangout. When I got there she already had 2 other of our girlfriends there spending the night. So there were 4 girls and 2 boys, we are all 15. My m...

A.   10 May 2011: If I was in your shoes I would definitely be pissed off with your boyfriend, as well as your friend that allowed him and his friend to sleep in her bed !! I personally feel that boys and girls at the age of 15 should have boundaries, The fact tha... (read in full...)

Should I try being someone I'm not to get his attention?

Q.   I like him so much we have loads in common and get on i cant stop thinking bout him and its driving me mad But he basically doesnt like me he he says theres nothing wrong with me but does not have the spark he needs in a relationship ...

A.   8 May 2011: Firstly , Pretending to be someone else is definitely no way to get this guy to like you. Don't pretend to be someone else, rather let him like you for who you are rather then who you trying to please. Its gonna be difficult to pretend to be ... (read in full...)

Tips on getting over a breakup?

Q.   [Mod Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one] I'm a bit depressed over a recent breakup looking for the best tips to move on. I kind of have been talking to a few girls, is it ok if I'm not over my ex completely? Also, wha...

A.   29 March 2011: Break ups are always hard and painful! I suggest you go out often and have a good time, that way you will get your mind off your ex, make sure that all contact with your ex is ended completely ! Keep oin mind that everything happens for a reason. ... (read in full...)

Is just talking about sex with another guy cheating?

Q.   Hey guys, Me and my bf have been together for nearly 4 months now and I love him very much :) he's my first bf and i'm his first gf so it was kinda awkward in the beginning but now, it's great :) just to let you know, we didn't french kiss yet,...

A.   29 March 2011: I wouldn't say its cheating,but if your current boyfriend happens to see these sort of messages he won't be very pleased about it ! My advice, rather talk to your boyfriend about sex rather then to this other guy !... (read in full...)

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