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Should I blame myself for what happened between us?

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Question - (9 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ptongirl3112 writes:

I need help I need to know if I am right. So there is this guy I met in primary school we hadn't talked since we moved to secondary school as he left but we got talking on Facebook and he came ovet. After a lot of talking we hugged and kissed and ended up in bed together and had dry sex. He stopped me and him a few days later as he liked another girl but then she used him. We then got talking again last night and he said that all we did was my fault and for me to take the entire blame. I am a sweet girl and was really nervous I think I didn't start it or anything. He said he felt bad but he didn't say abything. I text him today and said that I am not taking full blame as I didn't entend to sleep with him and he led.me.on.actually. He told me to fuck off and delete his number. Is it my fault ? Should I take the blame ?

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A female reader, RMeg South Africa +, writes (10 May 2011):

At age 16, you shouldn't even be having any sort of sexually intimacy! I think that BOTH of you are to blame, things like that don't only happen because of one person - Clearly the both of yous wanted to 'hook up' and so you did!

The fact that he is acting the way he is, is not your fault , this type of boy should be left alone, don't sms him again, leave him, he obviously was just looking for a one night stand !!

A word of advice , be careful of the type of guys you "Hook up" with , some boys arnt going to respect you the way others are !

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A female reader, another married lady United States +, writes (10 May 2011):

It's nobody's fault! No one is to blame. The sex was mutual.

He wanted it and so did you.

It's over, move on!

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