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My 'best friend' keeps flirting with my boyfriend!

Q.   Ok, i have a big problem with my bestfriend! Recentley ive started dating this guy that i REALLY like and he really likes me. Well Today at break my boyfriend came to meet me like he usually does, and we were in the middle of a conversa...

A.   25 June 2008: i suggest you tell her straight. harsh but thats the only way ! if ur stuck on what to say .. " you no i like ( wtever his name is) so will you please step back abit. x x hope it works out xx ... (read in full...)

Has anyone let love go due to fear of commitment?

Q.   Has anyone ever let a love go because they were afraid to commit and then after realized they made a mistake? Or did it mean he was not the one for me and I was right in doing what I did?...

A.   25 June 2008: Funnily iv been in the same situation, sometimes it just doesnt feel right to commit and maybe this just shows your not ready not that you dont want to. * take the risk forget the fall if its meant to be its worth it all ..x... (read in full...)

Recently my mate's been flirting with me, how do I find out if he really loves me?

Q.   i've known this guy for three years and we're really good mates,and i'm in love with him, lately he's been flirting with me or so my friends say, but i don't know, and i really want him to see me in that way. How do i find out if he does love me? ...

A.   25 June 2008: Well... when you no he's alone text him. tell him that u like him and ask him if he just wants to remain friends or be something more. its a bit of a risk but its worth takeing Good luck x... (read in full...)

What constitutes cheating?

Q.   Hi to all you advisors out there on this site. I don't have a problem, but here's the story. A few weeks ago we had friends over and somehow the subject of my 'former best friend' came up. He is only a 'former best friend' because of his divorce, he ...

A.   19 June 2008: Cheating to me is Haveing done something sexual for example kissing ( snogging) sex oral what ever ..Hugging is no where near cheating and i think that your Friend was wrong to do that infront of you wife but Nothing happend so dont make a big deal ... (read in full...)

Help, I don't know what to do with my crush and my boyfriend...

Q.   k, well, i hav this boyfrend rite?and im onlii 12 but were pretty serious as ive already met his mom and dad and sister but the thing is, wayyyyy b4 that, i had this crush on a boy thats still in my class but i never thought he liked me, so anywayz, ...

A.   19 June 2008: well..u myt jst have developd theese feelings becoz Of the fact he liked your best mate and it made you realise but Say if u finish your current bf then your crush wont get wiff you wt will you do then? If you dont want a relationship with your... (read in full...)

He broke up with me, now I feel like sleeping around a lot, why?

Q.   hi . my boyfriend recently broke up with me, and now i feel like sleeping around a bit with different guys. i know its slutty and i don't want to do it, but i'm sooooo lonely and miss the physical contact :( what should i do ?...

A.   13 June 2008: You want to be feel wanted... its natural after a break up and you also want to make him feel jelous Iv been there done that but just think Of what he is thinkin ? it wont be nice... steady down talk to some other boys Have fun time with you friends ... (read in full...)

She told me that that she will never talk to him again if he gets with me!

Q.   Hello i need some help.... i met this guy about a year ago and i really like him and he really likes me. He has stayed good friends with his ex who he went out with like 2 years ago. Ever since this boy has said he wants to be with him, she has ...

A.   13 June 2008: Shes just hurt at the fact he wants you now and not her... Just say too him i really love you but i carnt wait around for ever so tell her? if he continues to let his EX controll his relationships it will ruin him metally ! he needs to tell her ... (read in full...)

I got dumped and I feel she keeps playing with my feelings... what does she want????

Q.   Ok here´s my situation: My girlfriend and I dated for 10 months. We had the best time, and we were sure we would stay together forever. So recently, she started saying I was making her suffer too much, but she wouldnt make it clear why. I ass...

A.   13 June 2008: This may be Qite upsetting to you but the truth is she doesnt like you .. she likes the fact she can have you when she wants. Dont let her push you about Shes playing with your feelings dont let her no how much she means to you anymore its OVER , if ... (read in full...)

Has anyone felt as you don't matter to the other person after the split up?

Q.   Does anyone after a relationship has ended that they didn't matter to the other person at all? I have been feeling this way. Broken up since October last year. Trying to be friends now- not going too well. Even though I am not attracted to him for ...

A.   13 June 2008: Try not too think about it i no that will seem stupid too hear but iv been in this situation i was with my boyfriend for a while and we split up in november of last year he still does what he always has done and tryin to be friends with him is ... (read in full...)

I finally can love again but I'm confused by this guy's mood changed - he's nice to me every now and then but usually acts like he doesn't care!

Q.   Okay my ex boyfriend passed away sometime back and after a long time I've found myself actually feeling something for someone else.. This guy is 5 years younger than me.. He's really nice to me every now and then but most often he behaves like he ...

A.   13 June 2008: Well this guy seems to be Perfect to get what he wants basicly hes playin games with your mind iv been in this situation so i can relate to this...You need to get a back bone and tell him straight that its over, at first you may feel like u regret ... (read in full...)

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