Do I choose my boyfriend, or my home country?
Q. This is about the choices I have. My boyfriend has decided to live in another country, as he's found there some really good educational and professional opportunities. I am still a student myself, went to university overseas, but before we got to...
A. 11 January 2013: My own opinion is that your education should come first. But, in a scenario if you two go your seperate ways, there is a big chance that you two will meet new people. But, in the other scenario you two arent correct for each other and you wind up ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone who hates me to death!
Q. So, I'm a young woman, and I'm extremely in love with someone who hates me to death. I want him dearly, and want him to be happy, but all seems impossible. How can I move on or fix this?...
A. 3 January 2010: well, hun...that was brief. Um...Well, I'd say don't even look at him when you pass him in the hall. And if he asked 'what's wrong' just keep walking, or you could do it the less complicated way and talk to him, or the easy way REMOVE HIM FROM YOUR ... (read in full...)
Hey!!! Is there still a chance I'm pregnant???
Q. Hi my boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby for a while now. We had sex during my ovulation period and my period was 10 days late naturally I thought I was pregnant. My question is once your period comes does it for certain mean you are not ...
A. 28 November 2009: Only 100 percent positive way to find out ....... GO TO A DOCTOR!... (read in full...)
How can I tell if his feelings are geniune?
Q. ok ... question i like this guy... and i know he likes me back last year i gave him a really hard time cuz i didnt like him. but this year my feelings grew for him i told him and even tho we liked each other he became mean. i jus alwayd figured he ...
A. 28 November 2009: Well...sorry to break it to you, hun, but you can't tell. Guys keep things bottled inside. But,(not trying to be mean)but it sounds like he's screwing with your emotions. But you can get an idea of if he likes you either from resources: your fri... (read in full...)
My friends have spread it around that I like him. Help!
Q. hi aunts i really need help, ok so ive liked this guy for nearly a year now and i thought it was just a secret between me and my friends an not even all of them know because out of all 15 of my best friends only 7 know who i like but i think someone ...
A. 27 November 2009: Um...well first of all never ever EVER trust anyone with that information. Second, it depends you want him to know? Then, get to know him better(hint: through friends or him, wors either way) Then get some LOYAL friends to talk to him about you ... (read in full...)
He cheated and I thought I was over it but I still feel paranoid. Is this normal?
Q. I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years. He is my first true love and I haven't been able to notice any other guy since. I am at Uni now and we are still together as we had agreed (he is still at home). He has...
A. 27 November 2009: No, this is all very natural. But, he did cheat on you and you know what they say? Once a cheater always a cheater. And if you're having second thoughts about HIS love and HIS trust, then dump him. Sometimes you may think you love something, but it ... (read in full...)
Why does he always seem so shy and uncomfortable when I talk to him?
Q. There is a guy I have always liked. He is one of the nicest people I know and I am pretty nice myself. He currently has a girlfriend and I respect him, her and their relationship enough though to keep my distance. I do not flirt with him and if ...
A. 26 November 2009: I'm with "CaringGuy" with this one. Maybe he likes you but doesn't know what to do. Or he's nevous around you with his girlfriend by his side. ... (read in full...)
I think he's avoiding me and it's breaking my heart... what should I do?
Q. i think the boy i like is avoiding me, hes a good friend of mine so we normally go round with our friends together which i like because we usually have really funny conversations, but for some reason he isnt talking to me as much and ignoring me i ...
A. 26 November 2009: Here's what I say go up to him and straight up say "hey what's up? You ok? Why are you avoiding me?" and don't take any "I'm not avoiding you" crap. This will show you got nerve and are not to be played with. ... (read in full...)
I have a plan! What do you think? Should I tell him?
Q. ok i'm 16 and well i like this guy in my grade. he's really awesome and i really really like him. i've never liked any guy more then i've liked him. anyway he still likes his ex-girlfriend. everyone knows i like him, even he knows and well i've ...
A. 26 November 2009: Don't tell him! First, he likes he's ex, clearly this guy doesn't have a life. Second, he knows you like him, if he liked you back he would've asked you out already. Third, your friend asked him if he likes you, and he said he only likes you as a ... (read in full...)
He doesn't have a girlfriend any more, is now my chance to tell him I like him?
Q. hey there i need advice. i like this guy in my college class he only just 16 thou and im 17.. we flirt all the time an are always looking at each over but his friends are people that put me in hospital a long time ago, he's noting like then i know ...
A. 26 November 2009: Okay, this guy will not stick up for you. He's too much of a wimp. Trust me with guys and their friends, their going to pick their buddies no matter what. I say get another boyfriend choice. ... (read in full...)
This guy likes me but I like his best friend
Q. This is a bit long and messed up. I broke up with my long term partner ( and fiance) last year. Soon after I broke up, this pretty close friend of mine (call him X) whom I hadn't met for awhile, contacted me to catch up. Not long after that, X ...
A. 26 November 2009: Whoo! Sounds like you've got alot on your plate. Well, for the first question about telling X, just straight up tell him. Guys hated when you beat around the bush. And for the second question I regret to say either way you're going to hurt X. But, I ... (read in full...)
My Bisexual Secret
Q. Okay, so, I'm bisexual. Ive known it for a while, and I share everything with my boyfriend, but is it the right thing to tell him this? Hes already worried about other guys trying to make a move, letalone a girl. Should I tell him and risk him ...
A. 26 November 2009: UH... ok not telling him is the worst thing you can do. If you don't tell him and he hears it from someone else, he's going to get suspicious and question your trust. If you calmly explain to him that there's nothing going on, and he's the only one. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend physically and mentally drains me... I'm so unhappy...
Q. Hello to everyone that responds to my question. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The relationship started out ok, and its been alright since. I enjoy his company sometimes, but half of the time he mentally exhausts me. Once upon a t...
A. 26 November 2009: I say if he doesn't respect you or your thoughts after you and him talked about this, tell him, "Hun, you and I are over" then walk out and never think of him again. You deserve a man who loves you and ONLY you. I can tell this guy is a player and ... (read in full...)
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