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writes:ok i'm 16 and well i like this guy in my grade. he's really awesome and i really really like him. i've never liked any guy more then i've liked him. anyway he still likes his ex-girlfriend. everyone knows i like him, even he knows and well i've tryed to get over him, but i can't, its just so hard. i've tryed, but i just end up liking him even more. well i was thinking i might know how to get over him. i think if i tell him face-to-face exactly how i feel about him. i know he only thinks of me as a friend, or at least thats what he told my friend and well by telling him how i feel, i'll know for sure nothing will happen between us but if i do this, i'll probably ruin our friendship for about a year or even more. so i dont know what to do. please help me.
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reader, puppylove101  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Don't tell him! First, he likes he's ex, clearly this guy doesn't have a life. Second, he knows you like him, if he liked you back he would've asked you out already. Third, your friend asked him if he likes you, and he said he only likes you as a friend, clearly it's not going to be much more. Here's some advice, next day of school, look hot and flirt with some new guys, that should get your mind off things. Also he'll see that you don't like him anymore. And here's a hint guys want what they can't have. I learned this from personal experience. Just Don't Tell Him!
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reader, charlie p  +, writes (26 November 2009):
Dont tell him. Like you say he only likes you as a friend, and hes still in love with his ex. so whats the best that can happen if you do tell him?
as for getting over him, well, thats tricky, and i guess only time is the way. sorry about that, but life's not easy.
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reader, Blod +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Don't tell him how you feel. I think it'll only complicate things. You're a friend to him and he seems happy enough with that, and that's better for you than losing his friendship. He still likes his ex so that would be a factor. You don't want to be in a relationship with a guy who has feelings for someone else, especially when he's a teenager.
So don't do anything hasty. After some time maybe you could approach him but for now leave him. Just admire him for afar.
Good Luck. X
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 November 2009):
Don't tell him. I know it's hard, but he's still in love with his ex and would prefer to know you are there as a friend than anything else. If you tell him, it might confuse him. Instead, make sure you're seeing other people, make sure keeping busy and just focus on yourself. You will get over him with time. But don't tell him, it could do more damage.
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