Are double standards ever fair?
Q. Here's one I think people might actually have strong opinions on.... Recently an old friend came back into my life. My boyfriend was thrilled for me when I told him, and was just as excited for me as I was since I REALLY enjoy their company. Y...
A. 19 June 2010: baddog, my understanding of what you said tells me that the friendships HE has with women, are based on sexual attraction...in your opinion how should that fact be dealt with? Should he still be "allowed" to have these friendships if I'm not granted ... (read in full...)
Are double standards ever fair?
Q. Here's one I think people might actually have strong opinions on.... Recently an old friend came back into my life. My boyfriend was thrilled for me when I told him, and was just as excited for me as I was since I REALLY enjoy their company. Y...
A. 18 June 2010: Tisha, I'm not afraid to call him on it, I'm just looking for other peoples opinions on the subject, because my fathers response was "you need to be single since you obviously don't know how a mans brain works" and my sisters response was "hunny, ... (read in full...)
Are double standards ever fair?
Q. Here's one I think people might actually have strong opinions on.... Recently an old friend came back into my life. My boyfriend was thrilled for me when I told him, and was just as excited for me as I was since I REALLY enjoy their company. Y...
A. 18 June 2010: The funny thing about this is, myself, my boyfriend and my friend all went to dinner together so I could show my boyfriend he has NOTHING to worry about. On the drive home I asked "Still jealous?" and he replied sheepishly, "No."
I thought that... (read in full...)
Just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, now I'm wondering about FWBs and other things!
Q. Hi everyone Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of two years... It was me that ended it but i didnt want to. I just didnt feel it was fair to keep going with it when I wasnt in love with him any more. I know Im not ready yet but when do yo...
A. 18 June 2010: Been there, I do not suggest FWB, in most cases, one or the other gets attached, feelings get hurt, hearts get broken. As for moving on, when its time.....you'll just know. Take things day by day, it hurts now, but you'll move on, you'll meet ... (read in full...)
Is cryotherapy worth the cost?
Q. I went in for my regular female exam and ended up having to get a cervical biopsy. I got the results back from that, and all my doctor told me was "the abnormal cells we seen are caused by hpv." She didn't tell me if I had warts or if it was just ...
A. 27 May 2010: thank you to those that posted, your words have been more than helpful. I have decided to go back to my doctor and get a little more information about everything. After I know a little more, I am going to make an informed decision about what to do. ... (read in full...)
How does one get on birth control pills, I am twenty?
Q. I want to go on the pill but last time I asked my GP all she told me was that there was no reason for me to go on it because I am not sexually active and have no medical reason e.g. heavy periods, irregular periods etc. but I want to go on it just ...
A. 18 May 2010: It's not for your GP to decide...Get a new one. You have every right to go on birth control. If you can't find one that will prescribe you the pill, then next time you go in and they ask "are you sexually active?" say "YEP!9 times a day EVERY DAY ... (read in full...)
He seems to care but his actions speak differently..why is he this way?
Q. Hi, It's been a while since I posted something, but I really need your advice. The relationship I'm in is an utter headache. We're together without the "title". We kiss, we fool around, we belong to each other--meaning we don't date any...
A. 18 May 2010: Honestly hun, what I get from this is that he's got other things on his mind, other than you...and what I mean is, he's got sex on the brain, and he's playing games to get it. You deserve better than that. My advice....don't give him the time of ... (read in full...)
Attraction killers?
Q. What things do men typically do that kill any attraction a woman may have felt for him?...
A. 17 May 2010: A BIG attraction killer...Saying or doing something hurtful, and then playing the victim when your lady gets angry with you.
Anyone else ever had THAT happen?... (read in full...)
I want to message him but I'm scared people will make fun of me!
Q. Ok i have this group of mates that ive only started gettin to know for the past year, they're all practically the same, pretty snobbish. One had a quiz night a few nights back all was fine and i met my mates boyfriends mate, and kinda liked him i ...
A. 17 May 2010: I say go for it! If he gave you his number...drop him a line even just to say hi :)... (read in full...)
"Stuck in the wrong relationship"
Q. "OPs own title" hi, i have a really good friendship with this guy and i talk to him a lot but recently its been told that he fancies me and then he asked me out and well i said yes and everybody says were cute and great together but i don't feel ...
A. 17 May 2010: Unfortunately, if the feelings aren't there, you can't force them. Unless he is someone you could see yourself growing to love, I would suggest you go back to the way you were...as friends. I wouldn't let it go to long though, it isn't fair for you ... (read in full...)
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