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Friend screwed me over now I don't want to see him

Q.   I was just screwed over by my former coworker/friend He is a former coworker from my 2nd job that I helped get into my 1st job. When he got hired, he got a sign on bonus. And I get a referral bonus. He asked me to split my referral bonus with ...

A.   21 January 2022: Well, I wouldn't say helped, but I encouraged him to apply and supported him throughout the process. But he wouldn't have applied if I hadn't encouraged him to do so. Idk if that changes things. Fortunately we work in different departme... (read in full...)

Friend screwed me over now I don't want to see him

Q.   I was just screwed over by my former coworker/friend He is a former coworker from my 2nd job that I helped get into my 1st job. When he got hired, he got a sign on bonus. And I get a referral bonus. He asked me to split my referral bonus with ...

A.   20 January 2022: I asked HR. He didn't list anyone under referrals when he applied, so no one can get the bonus. So it works out. I didn't care about getting the money anymore, but I just didn't want him to get it.... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid, or is he following me?

Q.   I befriended a guy twice my age (already a bad idea, I know) and knew he liked me. But I was honest and told him I didn't see him that way. We were friends and workout buddies. But after a while, I realized he was very immature and kinda creepy. I ...

A.   12 March 2017: Well, i have mentioned many times to him that his behaviour is inappropriate. He doesn't care. And im not the first girl to have told him that he's acting creepy. Before we started working out together, he would always workout in the mornings... (read in full...)

Parents won't let me go. What do I do?

Q.   Hello. I am having issues with my parents. I am 23 years old, chinese, female, and the youngest in my family, as well as my generation. I understand there is a degree of overprotectiveness, but ive had enough of it. I graduated from college (wh...

A.   21 September 2015: Im worried they are gonna freak out. My mom used to show up unannounced at my former residences, and i have no doubt she will do that too.... (read in full...)

How do I stop thinking about this cute guy, and move on?

Q.   I met a cute guy in the previous semester in one of my exercise classes. I didn't realize i liked him until the very last day of class, which was horrible timing, since i wont see him again. He's a different major, we're both graduating i...

A.   7 January 2015: Annalisa, it's really bad timing. I don't want him to think i'm weird or get creeped out.... (read in full...)

Is my friend looking for a certain answer about our mutual friend?

Q.   my friend has been making weird references about me and our mutual friend, and I'm a little confused by his behavior. yesterday he suddenly brought this up: him: You still like ____ huh me: ____? what about _____? him: You still like him? ...

A.   23 March 2014: Well thats not very mature of him...I dont know what I was thinking...youre right chigirl. Its his loss, not mine. Thanks everyone!... (read in full...)

Is my friend looking for a certain answer about our mutual friend?

Q.   my friend has been making weird references about me and our mutual friend, and I'm a little confused by his behavior. yesterday he suddenly brought this up: him: You still like ____ huh me: ____? what about _____? him: You still like him? ...

A.   23 March 2014: But guy A hardly talks to me. When we're hanging out with a group of friends, its like hes trying to avoid me. He leaves if a approach, and sits as far away as possible from me.... (read in full...)

Is my friend looking for a certain answer about our mutual friend?

Q.   my friend has been making weird references about me and our mutual friend, and I'm a little confused by his behavior. yesterday he suddenly brought this up: him: You still like ____ huh me: ____? what about _____? him: You still like him? ...

A.   21 March 2014: i never said I liked him, which is why i'm confused. He is cute, and a sweet guy, I wouldn't say no if he did ask me out.... (read in full...)

He keeps invading my personal space.

Q.   I work on campus in a computer lab, and really enjoy working with the students. But there is this one man (at least twice my age, maybe more) who comes into the lab occasionally, and he is overly-friendly with me, and it makes me uncomfortable. He ...

A.   12 February 2014: and he just gave me a stuffed bear and a card...... (read in full...)

He's never asked for my number and doesn't talk to me on social media. I'm really confused now. Did I do something to offend him? Does he not like me anymore?

Q.   i was under the impression a classmate of mine liked me, but now i don't think he likes me anymore. I thought he liked me because our mutual friends made multiple comments about us as a couple (i.e. me being "his boo/girl") which i pretended i ...

A.   5 February 2014: :/ this sucks. I wish he was upfront about this. I feel like I was ambushed by my friends.... (read in full...)

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