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... Send *resto a private message | | | *resto's profile:39yo married man. 3 yrs married. 1 kid, 2 yo son. Work as a software engineer. stable job, own my own house, cars, etc. same troubles as most people, owe my life to the bank, a little credit card debt and a marriage that is not exactly perfect.
Lived most of my life by myself, nerdy kid growing up, always the one who was picked on. Never had a real girl friend until after high school. That was a codependent relationship that lasted 8 years until I ended it.
Have lived in So Cal since 2001. Many friends are DJ's and recording artists. Have seen the ugly side of tinseltown and the fake side of people and relationships in Hollywood, lived there for 5 years by myself in my own bachelor pad. Never had a g/f.
I'm an analytical person, very methodical, a bit of a perfectionist, literate and well educated, big on manners and chivalry. Parents are from UK and Europe.
Traveled the world while growing up and have interacted with many cultures and class types both inside and outside the US. |
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I feel like boyfriend has sex with me like its a favor!
Q. I know for a fact that I am quite attractive and sexy. I love dressing up and showing myself off. I love wearing sexy lingerie and am not afraid to go all-out and adventurous in the bedroom (and OUTSIDE the bedroom). I'm not afraid to put on a wee ...
A. 13 September 2010: Perhaps you are coming on very strong for him. He wants to be the dominate member of the relationship but isn't because you're so dominate in the bedroom. Maybe instead of the lingerie and grabbing the croch approach, invite him to dinner and over ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can suggest instead of porn blocking software that would be fair on both of us, and that would make him stop lying to my face?
Q. Towards the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend I found out he looked at porn. I asked him not to, because the thought of it made me feel very insecure. He agreed, and promised that he'd stop looking. But he didn't, and after a while a ...
A. 13 September 2010: Have you considered that fact that he might be breaking his promise to not watch porn as retaliation for something that you're not doing yourself?
As a married man I find that I sometimes find myself making decisions that are albeit emotiona... (read in full...)
His ex wants him back and he is confused!
Q. I started talking with a guy that I met online in May of this year. Things progressed. We met, were very attracted to one another, but live about an hour away from each other. Things continued to progress. He was very romantic and is a writer. ...
A. 13 September 2010: Sounds like he never left his ex, or was there ever really an ex to begin with, more like his wife. While his relationship might have been tanking he went fishing and found you. The moment the reality of meeting you came to fruition he realized that ... (read in full...)
Did she lie about being pregnant?
Q. I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago. A few weeks later she told me she was pregnant. I was shocked but happy at the same time and we decided to give things another go. At the time I did think it was a bit convenient for her to be pregnant a few ...
A. 13 September 2010: Hi,
I once had a long time girlfriend that did something similar and a friend of hers came to me and confided in me something that she said to him about me. This resulted in me instantly dumping her and cutting all communication with her. I e... (read in full...)
After just 2 months I feel alone and trapped in this marriage
Q. hello my name is tinker and i have a question i am married im young and i dont think i am in love with my husband any more sorry i no it sounds bad and i feel bad but at the same time idk what to do about my feelings i cant stand the way he treats ...
A. 13 September 2010: Tinker, I know exactly how you feel. The week before my wedding I sat down with my fiance and told her that I didn't think that we should get married because the person that I was dating prior to the engagement had faded away and a more passive p... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't feel that I do enough for the relationship
Q. Hello everyone! My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 1 year and 9 months and everything was going smoothly until recently... We are having a long distance relationship at the moment as she still has another year of uni left and I have fin...
A. 13 September 2010: I've been married for 3 years now, when I first met my wife we lived apart and dated for nearly a year but did not move in with each other until after I proposed to her. My wife constantly tells me I don't do enough for our relationship. It... (read in full...)
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