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I wouldnt say Im qualified to help but i guess I have view of life and those who have a similar view are generally ashamed to speak. I am not religious but I am one of the ever decreasing people that believe virginity should be given to the person you want to spend your life with. This has caused me pain beyond belief but i stick with it cos its what I belive.

Would it be safe to ask for a Fwb relationship with the neighbor?

Q.   Hi, I always have sexual urges to have sex with my neighbor. We're both 15, she's very cute and has a creamy complexion. We're classmates in elementary. And I know that she has a major crush on me. She flirts with me all the time but in the past ...

A.   3 June 2012: Yeah i was going to say your too young but N91 has that covered. So this girl likes you and presumably wants a relationship and you are going to ask her for sex and nothing else because that's what FWB 'relationships' are. Do not abuse a woman's ... (read in full...)

Don't most men like to touch their girlfriend's boobs?

Q.   Is it normal for a guy to like touching his girlfriend's boobs? I mean, in most relationships, is it normal? Cause my girlfriend apparently don't think so, and she forbade me from touching them after awhile. I used to touch them like once a week, ...

A.   3 June 2012: It is absolutely normal for a man to want to touch a woman's breasts. Obviously they should do it in the correct environment and situation with a consenting partner. There is nothing abnormal about it, its natural. It is weird that she thinks its ... (read in full...)

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

Q.   Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

A.   3 June 2012: I thought some advice was a harsh response to me. Yet saying that I'm improving Firstly my insecurities came after it happened, as an affect of the upset. Who says that someone who isn't religious can't believe that virginity is important? ... (read in full...)

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

Q.   Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

A.   20 May 2012: Well its been over a year since i wrote this. While i admit the pain hasn't gone away or decreased i can tell you i have grown numb to it. I'd like to the thank the people who tried to help me through the pain without attacking my character, motives ... (read in full...)

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

Q.   Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

A.   2 May 2011: It bothers me because it meant alot to me. Call me old fashioned but virginity was something important and special...not just something you give away. Now maybe that is the wrong way to look at it but its what i belived. Now all of a sudden its ... (read in full...)

Should a guy really forgive a girl for being rude because she is on her period?

Q.   Is a woman's cycle really a reason to forgive her sudden bitchiness? ...

A.   2 May 2011: Thats not fair at all you have no experience with what women go through during their period so you have no right to question if their personality temporary changes from what ive been told its not exactly nice...so to convey it (im sorry if it ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to hangout with a guy I recently met and know is interested in me, even though I have a boyfriend?

Q.   The other day at work, I met a guy (not affiliated with my place of work) who seemed very friendly and genuinely nice (and cute, too!) After a little bit of talking, he asked me out on a date, to which I declined and stated that I had a boyfriend of ...

A.   1 May 2011: There is nothing wrong with it at all as long as you, your boyfriend and your new friend all know that this is just a friendship then there is no problem with it if ur boyfriend is not the jealous type then he shouldnt have any problem with it ... (read in full...)

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

Q.   Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

A.   1 May 2011: Okay I came on here for help...help overcoming this and deciding what i should do and instead in alot of cases i have been offended and insulted in whats been said and many of you point out whats wrong with me which i already know...when i need to ... (read in full...)

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

Q.   Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

A.   30 April 2011: Thank you all for helping me...even if some of the posts made me feel even worse...i appreicate it look ill clarify a few things I have never blamed her for this....im angry at her ex for pressuring her into this even more so that she was underage... (read in full...)

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

Q.   Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

A.   30 April 2011: YouWish I can see where u are coming from and i will answer I was a virgin...thats what i meant when i said i have enforced...I enforced it on myself as well I wouldnt ask this of someone if I couldnt do it myself the reason it was early on is be... (read in full...)

If I stay with him he's going to remind me of this all my life!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months already, our relationship is going OK but he is planning to move to panama in the summer. Before we started to seriously go out i had been with someone else that he actually knew, me and that ...

A.   17 January 2011: Although a lot of stuff he has done is....well....wrong it sounds to me like he is suffering retroactive jealousy (or retrograde jealousy-same thing slightly different name) its a horrible thing for anyone to suffer but your boyfriend has made ... (read in full...)

What should I wear on this date?

Q.   i cant decide between 5 dresses which one i should wear for a date.. please someone give me a clue on what type of dress we have to wear on a date. your answer will be appreciated...

A.   17 January 2011: I agree with petinal here but i would add that you should wear what you like cos your opinion is part of who you are and in a good relationship you should love who they are and not that dress they wore on a date :) good luck... (read in full...)

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