Why do I feel like I need a man to complete me?
Q. hello cupid,i hoping you can help me anwser some concerns i have about me. i have been married for 20 years now. but thinking back i really got into this marraige really fast. within a week of my husband and myself dating we moved in together and ...
A. 31 December 2012: You sound exactly like my ex wife. We were married for 16 years until she finally had a crisis. She is a chronic people pleaser. She always did everything for others in the hopes that people would like her. And of course, other people did like her ... (read in full...)
My Coworker says he's a "relationship kind of guy" but I think he's rushing things. Does he want more a FWB than a relationship?
Q. I have got involved in a coworker. We have been sexting and sending each other pics... I was really against this but he eventually twisted my arm. Thing is, hes only just recently broken up with his gf and says he wasn't bothered about the breaku...
A. 30 December 2012: Hmm.. I assume this guy is more or less your age. If so then his hormones are on fire. He just recently broke up with his girlfriend. And he has twisted your arm with sexting and doing stuff you don't want to do. Your inner self, a.k.a. intuition, ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being over jealous and clingy
Q. Umm hello, ok lemme just go straight to the point..I have a gf, we've. Been dating for 2 months now.. She is awesome, got no problem at all, or I dnt know if its a problem. I am too clingy or should I say too jealous, when ever she tells me about ...
A. 29 December 2012: Everything that happened with your GF's exes, and yours for that matter, is history and happened before you both met. You cannot get jealous over the past, and in my opinion you should embrace it, for those are the events that contributed to who you ... (read in full...)
Should I start looking for someone else? I don't think my current GF is going to be the one, long term
Q. I am 47 and was married happily for 16 years, and not-so-happily for the last 2 as I found myself dragged down a path of divorce I didn’t want to be on. My wife instigated the proceedings; the reasons no longer matter - suffice to say I had neve...
A. 29 December 2012: Thank you. I did not consider that if I had someone else they may not be willing to wait until my daughter left the house. So it seems I may be best to do nothing now and wait until I am closer to the time frame where this would become an issue and ... (read in full...)
Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?
Q. my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...
A. 29 December 2012: I really feel for you with this situation. I am about 10 years younger than you and I am going through a similar situation, my wife of 16 years cheated on me with a guy almost 30 years older than her, and has now filed for divorce and is moving to ... (read in full...)
Too much, too soon... how to recover and be a MAN?
Q. I've met a woman an hour away from me, we have many things in common and I'd like to think we've got great chemistry. Fast forward 7 weeks and we are exclusive, sleeping together and spending sat/Sundays The problem is I have almost turned mu...
A. 28 December 2012: You are needy. Don't worry, you are not the only one, and I speak from experience - I used to be the same way.
I am a hopeless romantic and I am open with my emotions as well, but that is not being needy. In fact being open can be a sign of stren... (read in full...)
I've just dumped my pot head boyfriend. Where do I go from here?
Q. Hi I'm 21 years old and I came home for Christmas and Broke up with my pot head (ex) boyfriend. I don't drink, I don't smoke weed, I graduated high school and I am currently on a holiday break from College. He smokes dope, drinks, dropped ou...
A. 28 December 2012: You are still very young and have your whole life ahead of you. You will meet other decent guys at school, or elsewhere once you finish. You have your whole life ahead of you. Consider yourself lucky to learn this lesson now and not later in life ... (read in full...)
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