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Boyfriend has become quite abusive and controlling

Q.   My Boyfriend, OB, has been really clingy, and I told him to stop doing things which annoy me. But lately he has become really manipulative and abusive- by trying to stop me having music lessons because I have missed my breaktime, and stop doing ...

A.   2 April 2009: Get out of this relationship, he should never raise a hand to you, dont wait round for the bruise!!!! He's controlling you by telling you what you can and cant do and its wrong!!!! Things are only going to get worse so just do it y u can, too many... (read in full...)

I love our baby but not my wife. Do I stay or do I go?

Q.   Me and my wife recently have had a baby. He is now one month old and he is wonderful, I love him with all of my heart. The problem is I do not his Mum. We have been together for 15 years and married for 9. I am just not in love with her at all....

A.   2 April 2009: You cant stay in a unhappy relationship for the sake of a child (it dont work)! Iv been in a situation like this with my ex, I did everything i could think of to makr it work but it didnt. Im so much happier now and my daughter gets the best of both ... (read in full...)

I'm 16, dating a 20 year old with a baby?

Q.   hi my name is brian and i am 16 going on 17 i have a 20 year old girlfriend and my question is .. should i be dating her if she's 20 and has a baby boy?... and yet i still love her and her son?... so i am asking for your opinions so please send me ...

A.   1 April 2009: If ur happy then thats all that matters!!! only u can decide if its right for u or not. Good luck and i hope it works out 4 u x... (read in full...)

How do I put my family back together after all the heartache this girl has caused?

Q.   Hi this is going to be an essay sorry. My son met a girl in Aug 2007 just before he joined the army, then in March 2008 she said she was pregnant,twins they got engaged and we had a family celibration party all was well baby due Nov 28, she was ...

A.   1 April 2009: Nobody should lead someone on like that. I agree wiv everyone who says go to a solicitor and have it in writing then that way your going to see the babe. As for her family saying he's abandoned her what do they expect? wen she's caused the ... (read in full...)

He's had affairs, hit me, said horrible things..is this love?

Q.   My husband had been caught out having affairs since then we have been trying to talk things through but always end up rowing with him lashing out he throws things somethimes he hits me threatens to kill me,he gets into such a rage i dont think he ...

A.   1 April 2009: I dont think its a case of does he love you or not its a situation that's not right and should not be happening!!!!! Iv just walked away from a relationship like this one and yes its hard but now im a better person for it. Maybe leave and tel him ... (read in full...)

Stay at home mom depressed, no motivation! What to do?

Q.   Please help! Im stuck in a rut and dont no wot to do. Im an at home mum of a 9 month old. I feel really depressed, one min im happy, nxt im down and i get really snappy at my boyfriend. I love him and my daughter very much, and hate takin it out on ...

A.   1 April 2009: Hi i have a 4 year old and am expecting again, I suffered really bad with depression after having my daughter and felt the same way you do now. You really do need to talk to your doctor about this and also friends and family. Its good that your ... (read in full...)

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