Partner's 38 year old son lives with him and isnt happy about us dating
Q. I have been divorced for 6 years and my partner widowed for 15 months. We have been friends for about 30 years and are very much in love. He has taken me to meet his siblings and I have done the same.They are all so happy for us. My sons think he is ...
A. 15 February 2012: I don't think you're doing anything wrong by carrying on with this relationship despite the son's feelings.
This man obviously wants to be with you. His son is 38 years old, and he shouldn't have to take his feelings into account anymore when dec... (read in full...)
Juggling 2 guys, neither knows about the other. What to do?
Q. I have know this guy for 13 years and we both know we are ment to be but I had to move away when I was young....he comes to visit me and we talk all the time we are best friends....the thing is I am dating someone and he wants to buy me a house and ...
A. 15 February 2012: You said you're meant to be with this guy - what more do you need to know? The only thing you can do is be honest with your current partner and tell him that there's someone else and you don't want to be with him anymore. It'll hurt but ultimately ... (read in full...)
The ex cheated, wasn't there for me and I ended things. Was I too hard on him?
Q. Dear Cupid I recently split from my ex we lived together for a year and then spent another year together but living apart . It was a messy break up he cheated I was very upset and thought if I kept sleeping with him I was keeping close to me. ...
A. 15 February 2012: I wouldn't say you're being too hard on him, no. It seems perfectly fair to me actually. More to the point, if you think not seeing him anymore is going to help you feel better and move on then go for it - as far as I'm concerned you don't owe him ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to overcome homosexuality?
Q. Hi cupid, quick question. I think I might be gay but I don't want to be. Nowadays when people say they are gay everybody jumps up saying its ok and that you're born that way and we don't have a choice and stuff like that but I don't think I believe ...
A. 14 February 2012: Put simply, you can't. It's just not possible to change the object of your sexual desires. You can't decide who or what turns you on - you simply discover it, admit it to yourself and try to live with it the best you can.... (read in full...)
I don't want to get back with my ex, but I need help understanding his behaviour. Why couldnt he stop going onto online dating sites? Why did he lie so much?
Q. I write in a midst of confusion. I have ended a 5 year relationship with my boyfriend due to his do or die determination in dating site memberships. It has been a constant cycle of him getting caught, lying, convincing me I am seeing things, then ...
A. 14 February 2012: It's really not easy to say what could be going through his head based on this short description - if you don't even know, then we can only speculate.
What is clear to me is that you still feel to need to understand him. So go ahead. Talk to him a... (read in full...)
If he's gay, what does that mean for our relationship?
Q. When do you consider someone 'gay'? And how should it change my friendship with him? I have this good friend. Sometimes he and I hang out together, and sometimes him, myself, and my wife hang out. We've even taken him with up to amusement parks,...
A. 14 February 2012: I guess it's up to you how you allow it to change your relationship.
As I see it, you made a false assumption about him; you saw him as a straight male, a peer, and know you know otherwise you feel like it has to change the boundaries of your rel... (read in full...)
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