I'm in a slump with boyfriend
Q. Hi All, Thankyou in advanced for all of your help. I have a quick question. My partner and I have been together for about a year and are set to move in together soon. I absolutely adore him and know that he feels the same about me al...
A. 10 November 2016: I believe that in his own way, he is already trying to make up for not always being there by taking that final step to move in together. For a guy, that's a HUGE step (in their eyes, its like marriage, LOL, or so i have been told).
I would sa... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting sex twice a week?
Q. Dear Cupid: I'm a lesbian and been with my lady for almost 2 years. At first the sex was amazing. NOW it never happens and she thinks there are times it has and it hasn't. I would remember. I CHERISH it so much when it does. She used to initiate...
A. 10 November 2016: Hmmmmmm. She used to initiate it, now she doesn't? She remembers times that it happened when it didn't? These put up red flags for me. Im not sure how your relationship has been however if that was my man, i would expect something happening on the ... (read in full...)
How does a single mother heal after a break up?
Q. So, I know what I've done wrong and I know what I've done right. What hurts the most is losing family, the connections you have, the memories, the what could've beens, the lingering feelings, etc. We have a toddler and a baby on the way. He's said ...
A. 9 November 2016: I am not sure what has happened for him to doubt that he is the father, or what has caused the two of you to drift so far apart. But perhaps some separation will do you good. I myself am a single mother, my partner and i split just over 2 mont... (read in full...)
How do I know which one is right for me?
Q. My friend and I have been friends for 9 years now and we didn't start out as friends when we we're younger. He use to bully me a lot since we lived next door to each other. He is bisexual and I'm don't know if he's interested in me or maybe I'm ...
A. 9 November 2016: Defiantly don't date your friends. It always ends in disaster. If it doesn't work, then its awkward. If it does work, then there is a 3rd wheel. Anyway you look at it, someone gets hurt. I agree with Denizen, Mr Right is still out there. Done ruin ... (read in full...)
How can I stop beating myself up for making same mistake twice?
Q. I recently was dating an awesome person and long story short, I wrecked my chances with them and turned them off completely. It's unfixable, trust me. If this mistake was something I had never learned about before, I'd just say "I just didn't know...
A. 9 November 2016: What your going through is defiantly part of life. I cannot tell you how many times i have messed up, learnt from my mistakes and sworn i would never do them again, and guess what..... Did it again, more than once.
Nothing happens the same way... (read in full...)
I cheated once on my husband with a friend I like the attention but feel guilty
Q. I know my hubby for 18 years of which we married for 10 years. Although I came close to cheating on him, I didn't actually ever kiss anyone (French kiss). I was so proud of this as most of my friends have cheated on their spouses. That was up until ...
A. 8 November 2016: Hmmmmm. I dont think you dont love your husband, else you wouldn't feel guilty. I think the two of you have just lost your spark. Getting told by the same person everyday that your beautiful just doesn't have the same effect as a stranger telling ... (read in full...)
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