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writes:(MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted as one)1-Okay everybody I have a real problem. There's this girl that says well never go out again and I told her that its too hard to just be friends with someone I was in love with. She tells me the next day that she doesn't think that we should be friends or anything at all anymore. After like 2 weeks she sent me a message on myspace saying hey. I ignored it. The next couple of days she sent another one. I messaged her back that probably wasn't a good thing for me but she's the one who said she didn't wanna be friends anymore right. Will I never be with this girl again or is it a lost cause? She is still holdin on for some reason. What should I do?2-If a girl that I went out with says that well never go out again and she doesn't think we should be friends anymore suddenly starts talking 2 me again what should I do? She also sent a message over myspace. We had a small convo and I put it off because I got busy when I messaged back she said hahaha umm ok now u wanna message me back. What should I even say to something like that and what does it mean coming from her side of the situation?
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reader, papertowns  +, writes (17 July 2010):
She probably misses your friendship, but it's just too bad she's the one who doesn't wanna be friends. She also probably likes the fact that someone loves her.
Good luck :)
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reader, Jix  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 Maybe she misses you? Or perhaps she is using your affection for her to stroke her ego.
Tell her you don't want to talk to her unless she is interested in seeing you again. If she doesn't want to be your girlfriend again, then forget about it because she's only wasting your time and extending your heart-ache.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (17 July 2010):
 I will just ignore it. When a girl says she doesn't even want to be your friend, it's time to move onto the next one. She's sending you messages because she needs to feel good someone's still in love with her.
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