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My head has been turned by a colleague, now I no longer love my wife. Help!

Q.   To be honest you may have been asked this very question a million times and it must be the hardest to answer! Its is a matter of a married person who thought he was in love with his wife only to find a true love without looking. Ok here goes. I...

A.   18 January 2007: What a sad story but it is only the beginning. I think all who read it will feel so very sorry for your wife. You have only just discovered this relationship with the colleague - it is very early days although you now feel so sure about it - my ... (read in full...)

My ex emailed me to ask if I'm "better about things with us now." What should I say?

Q.   Okay, please please help. Boyfrend has recently dumped me, I begged him to change his mind but he wouldnt. Cried loads and everything but he said it wasnt right, he was almost convinced that we dont have a long term future together. He then said we ...

A.   15 January 2007: I think stina has it well covered but I would add that you could consider answering his question with a question... in a very nice way you could ask " I wonder why you are asking me this question now after you said that it was better for us both to ... (read in full...)

I need help surviving a long-distance relationship!

Q.   Hi. My boyfriend recently moved overseas for work. I'm 21 and he's 25- We have been together for almost two years and I really miss him but am unable to join him until next year- probably March. I never wanted to have a long-distance relationship ...

A.   17 November 2006: Your relationship will survive if you both want it to no matter how far apart you are.... (read in full...)

I am insisting on a deeper comittment from him..Am I being foolish to do this?

Q.   My boyfriend of three years has relocated overseas due to work reasons , and we have been conducting a long distance relationship for the past two months now ; we keep in contact every day thru email; text and phone calls however the problem is that ...

A.   17 November 2006: If he says no I would think that you are likely to lose him if you push for more. You have to decide if that risk is worth taking. Has your boyfriend been married before and badly scared or hurt by the experience? - do you understand why he does... (read in full...)

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