Is it possible to make myself not love her?
Q. Uhm... I've known a friend since I was 12, and we've been best friends since then. However, during the past year, I've come to realise that I love her more than just a friend. She got a boyfriend six months ago and everytime she mentions him I get ...
A. 29 December 2010: im sorry to say that maybe you should hold back. your friend seems happy at the moment with her boyfriend and i like to think that you want whats best for her. even if its hard just keep reminding yourself that shes happy. you care for her more ... (read in full...)
I wonder if I should have broken up with him.
Q. I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer ...
A. 29 December 2010: my advice- you did the right thing and there no use hurting yourself over it. your love for him is shown but if he cant give you back just a little when your giving up so much im sorry to say but how is that anyways say he loves you. it will hurt ... (read in full...)
Having sex with my first cousin.
Q. Hey Last night me and my cousin got a bit drunk and we started making out, even tho we stopped a few times saying this isn't right.. but still we kept doing it. Today she told me that she wants to have sex with me and that she can't believe s...
A. 29 December 2010: short and sweet. go for it. if you want to. if not just tell her no.and if it comes down to the worst. friends is better then nothing... (read in full...)
Should I give this secretive relationship more time or just seize the day and go for it?
Q. For the past six months, I have sort of been seeing this guy. We met at a house party and got talking the day after when he asked for my number and things happened from there. We have spent time with friends and more time alone. Recently, we were at ...
A. 29 December 2010: my advice- i know sometimes when you like a guy its hard to tell yourself that he might be using you. the truth can hurt sometimes but you need to get away from him for sometime to think clearly. I dont think you should stay the night in that way. i ... (read in full...)
My 12 yr old brother controls my life... HELP!? Please?
Q. I am here to say that my younger brother won't stop controlling my life. I'm 16 and he's 12. On christmas my pearents have just got me a new small mini laptop. I am very happy beacause I finally have my own computer. But whenever I want privacy, ...
A. 29 December 2010: my advice to you would be put a password on the thing. he will get mad but just dont fall for it. 12 year olds tend to get what they want when they act hurt. i know i have a brother thats 12 to. when he ask you to take it off say no and make sure ... (read in full...)
What do I do when I see my cousin again?
Q. Ok I'm 14 and the other night I went to a party things got dirty a lot of kissing and sex but I decided not to get involved and then my girl cousins best mate pulls me into a room and try's to take my clothes off, I managed to get away later my ...
A. 29 December 2010: ok iv been there kinda. my advice tell her plan out there no way in hell you will do that. it might hurt her fillings but you have to do it. if not shes just going to keep going at it until you snap. and that end bad. just tell her you have someone ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fall in love again and forget this loser for good?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I dated on and off for 3 years. I am 18 years old. he is the only boyfriend ive had. we broke up recently bcuz he was texting another girl. its not the first time we break up for that reason but i always end up going back to him ...
A. 29 December 2010: i would say. keep your mind open to other men. i think that your to worried of being alone and not ever having a family to forget about him and find another guy that treats you with more respect. i believe if he really loves you then he wont wait ... (read in full...)
Is he just shy or should I take the lead?
Q. Hey! A month ago, I moved into a new town and a new town implies a new gym! I'm gay and I'm okay with it... The thing is, in the new gym, the trainer is really hot although he's kinda old (nearly 50). I feel like he's looking a lot at me but it...
A. 29 December 2010: hmmmm. well lets see. i think what you should do is not just suddenly walk in and star making out with him or something like that. move slowly into it. ok so he is a trainer. ask him for help on something and start by asking simple questions that ... (read in full...)
A love quadrangle
Q. I'm 13. I just switched from a horrible school to an awesome school. And this is the story of the love quadrangle I am currently in. It all started when I found out my friend (who I knew for a month at the time) had a brother. At the time, I didn't ...
A. 29 December 2010: dude. my advice would be tell your friend. cause if her brothers friend makes a move on you. she is going to be really mad. and who knows maybe she wont mind that you think her brothers cute. i mean right now my best friend and my brother are dating ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to have feelings for my best friend's boyfriend.
Q. i think i'm falling in love with my best friend's boyfriend. he's someone i've been friends with for a while and i see him almost daily, and i've been really close with his girlfriend since we were tiny. now i know he's "off limits" and i would ne...
A. 29 December 2010: i know what your going through. im not going to tell you to forget him. cause it wont work. it really makes it worse. i know that your best friend means alot to you and you dont want to risk it. i didn't either. but you need to tell her. as her best ... (read in full...)
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