I'm torn between two women. What is wrong with me?
Q. I hope I can get some guidance on this because I am completely confused and unbearably hurting inside. I'm 21, a college student (about to graduate), and I've been in a relationship with a wonderful woman for over 5 years. We got together when we ...
A. 2 November 2007: it seems to me both of your options are stay with your girlfriend and both of them you speak of in less than enthusiastic terms, the first option you stay with her becaue it wold be the done thing, the second you suck up the pain and stay with you... (read in full...)
I love her but she wants to end it!
Q. My girlfriend of 7 months wants to end it as she says her feelings for me are fading, we have just been to Amsterdam and had a great time and she was fine and happy all the time we where there. im just looking for a way to get her to see the good...
A. 1 November 2007: All you can do is try to work through these isues with your girlfriend, perhaps when she got home from amsterdam the hum drum of being back in everydy life has got her down, maybe its nothing...ask her to explain to you whats wrong, and see what ... (read in full...)
Has my ignorance in bases and pulling made me look stupid enough for my interest to lose interest??
Q. ahahah please help i have messed up so badly. basically its a long story. theres this guy hu went to my old primary school. we used to fancy each other like mad. now i finally found him online and we have started talking online. everything was ...
A. 1 November 2007: if he is foolish enoughto stop taking to you over that he is not only very disrespectful but totally immature...he's the one that looks stupid...
however if you do want to continue taking to him , then just tell him you and your friends use diff... (read in full...)
Does he like me or doesn't he?
Q. hi my name is georgi, and i kinda have a crush on this man he says he likes me but in a friend way but he keeps giving me that smile look you know the one tht says i like you but i dont want others to knowi was wondering wat should i do? ...
A. 1 November 2007: ask him straight out....and then believe him...if he says he only likes you as a friend, then it mens for whatever reason he does not want anything more than friendship from you...it doesn't matter how much someone smiles at you or gives you mixed ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not??
Q. My crush knows I like him or has known that I've liked him. Sometimes he's like everywhere I go and other times he acts like I'm not even there : ( He ad I are both REALLY shy with each other because I know that it is possible for him to like me ...
A. 1 November 2007: sounds liek maybe he's as confused as you, either by signals your giving him, or just in his own head, i suggest you continue trying to be friends with him, try to relax around him and get to know him, you obviously share some of the same friends so ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions I can tell her?
Q. My friend has been dating this guy for about a year, possibly a bit more. About 8 weeks ago he began talking to this girl. And he fancied her and always told her and said she was pretty. She found out yesterday that her bf had been planning to kiss...
A. 1 November 2007: as her friend it is your place to support her in whatever decision she makes....while i know you feel you are looking out for her, telling her to dump her is putting pressure on her to do that, when maybe she doesn't want to. while i think its ... (read in full...)
Should I stay away from her, or see her?
Q. Hello, I am confused and hurting. I have been going out with my girlfriend (19 I'm 22) for 9 months now, we have had a fantastic time and this, for both of us has been the best time in our lives. We have got so close, and she even began discussing ...
A. 1 November 2007: if she misses you now, staying away until the date agreed would only be doing so to prove a point...whch is never a good enough reason, especially if it goes against what you both want....however thread carefully, don't rush into anything, take it ... (read in full...)
How can I get over this period, or ignor it?
Q. I felt really quite proud. I had got the courage to ask out a girl i fancied. I got rejected (she already had a bf) but i don't really mind. At least i had tried and i can be happy that i had the courage (i am actually quite shy so big achievement). ...
A. 1 November 2007: i think between yourself and your friends you've already gotten the answer to your question...these ppl are clearly just jealous of you being proud enough to take a chance and ask this girl out...the only way they can make themselves feel better ... (read in full...)
What are my chances? Am I crazy?
Q. Dear Cupid 1. I fell in love with a guy 11 years younger than me, I'm 33 - he is also in love with me. 2. I'm divorced 3. 2 kids 11 and 3 4. We met online 4 months ago 5. We have not met face to face 6. Same religion - but culturaly differ...
A. 30 October 2007: i don't think your crazy, but 22 is extremely young to be in love, let alone without meeting someone, also the reality of your life as a parent may not be something he is ready for, and then theres how your children would feel...while you both may ... (read in full...)
Do I have something to wory about?
Q. Hi,I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months and its been going great untill now , he seems to be not as loving towards me and i was looking at photos on his myspace an it has him kissing another girl(only on the cheek) and ...
A. 30 October 2007: i think the above answer is a little harsh...
there are two main questions here, why ha sit cooled off...had it before you saw the picture, or are you just noticing it now after all the mind is a powerful thing and perhaps because you're worr... (read in full...)
| *nkybonx's friends
These are mutual friends, so *nkybonx has
added them and they have added *nkybonx!
|
