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Why we hurt those who love us so much?

Q.   I am Pakistani and have been in a relationship with a British girl for the last 18 months and she happens to be just one year younger than me here in Dubai. She and I being great fans of football . I like Diego Maradona and regard him, like mil...

A.   22 October 2011: You liked manipulating her emotions. You were being mean because she gave you the power to hurt her. It's good that you caught that. You should remember that you have a tendency to do that and try not to in future. But seriously-you made her cry ... (read in full...)

We just don't match sexually anymore. I still love him and feel that I'll marry him, but recently it's gotten worse.

Q.   Hello, I've been with my bf for over a year and we've talked about marriage and kids quite a lot. Problem is, when we first got together, he was not over his ex and we had some issues of him lying to me about contacting her and hiding emails/te...

A.   22 October 2011: A year? Honey get out now! He is a serial cheater and validates himself by keeping women on a string. He makes you feel unsexy in order to manipulate you into trying harder to please him and forget about pleasing yourself. He still talks to h... (read in full...)

He's so cold to me now we've slept together

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for about ten months.we had sex after three months of our relationship,but that changed everything between us.he is so cold to me,he doesn't care to answer my calls and if he does,his response is so cold.he also ...

A.   22 October 2011: He actually wanted blood? Okay-sounds worse than it is right? It sounds like he got what he wanted and he has put you on the bench. I have news, he is not your boyfriend. He is just a jerk who is leading you on.... (read in full...)

If you are with a divorced man does that automatically mean I have to have a second best wedding and a second best life?

Q.   My partner of 3 years is a nice guy, he makes me laugh, he’s good company, he cooks me dinner, we share interests. Intimacy is great. He got divorced 6 years ago. I have never been married. The problem is he has so many problems and we cannot ge...

A.   22 October 2011: "I’m incredibly frustrated and disappointed with him, which I suppose is not entirely fair because it’s not really all his fault, but if I bring up the subject he tells me I should just leave if I’m not happy. Why can’t he rather try and work ... (read in full...)

I want dirty sex! Can I get it without leaving my husband?

Q.   Why cant he get dirtier in bed? I know I am not as fit as a porn star, but I love sex and the hotter and dirtier the better! I have always known what I wanted, but when we first got together I was too young and shy to articulate it. Ten years later, ...

A.   15 September 2011: I thank everyone who responded. The truth is I have communicated with him and listened to him and talked to him and watched movies with him, but it hasn't changed a thing about how I feel which is dissatisfied in general. He gets embarassed and ... (read in full...)

My best friend doesn't like my boyfriend and I think I'm going to have to choose!

Q.   Ok i,m in the usual best friend or Boyfriend Situation My best friend is good friends with my boyfriends sister. And it was her and his sister that set us up! We've been dating for about 2 months and we've had ups and downs. Now before when...

A.   14 September 2011: I'd like to know how long you have been friends with your best friend, because you have only been dating this guy for two measly months and have had ups and downs allready? in my experience, the first three months should be all good if he's a good ... (read in full...)

She slept with my friend on the day we met

Q.   Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...

A.   14 September 2011: She obviously liked your friend that night, and barely knew you-you have NO business being jealous. You probably just wanted to have sex with her and now you are looking for reasons to break it off. I feel bad for her, because she has now invested ... (read in full...)

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